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Jefreyw1f Profile Information

Cuddly Switch with a sense of humor
Age 54 From Bridgeport, Connecticut - Online - Over 2 weeks ago
Man (Switch) Seeking A Woman

Basic Information

First name  
Jefrey
I Can Speak  
English
I Would Describe Myself As  
I’m cuddly with a dad bod and the jokes to match. Very switch, I enjoy either side of the gentle D/s dynamic. Not looking for a hookup. You can’t rush trust. People are people, not dopamine dispensers. Fairly new and exploring. Looking for people to talk to and get to know, maybe play eventually if we hit it off. Kind of dorky and on the spectrum, pretty self aware and actively seeking to love and appreciate myself more. Love to give and receive attention and affection.

Two years separated (still married for the healthcare benefits so that each can make ends meet, US healthcare sucks) in different states, with adult children living their best life. Understand that’s a hard limit for some, so want to be up front about it. Consent isn’t consent unless it’s informed consent. Happy to be someone’s wingman as well as play partner, and friend above all. No expectations and no pressure.
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Capricorn

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is  
A Few Extra Pounds
My Height Is  
6' 1 (1.85 m)
My Ethnicity Is  
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is  
Separated
I Have Kids  
Yes - Not At Home
I Want Kids  
No
My Best Feature Is  
Eyes
My Hair Is  
Salt And Pepper
I Have One Or More Of These  
Cat
Willing To Relocate  
No

Status

My Education Level Is  
University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is  
Full-time
My Speciality Is  
Education / Academic
My Job Title Is  
Librarian
I Live  
Alone
At Home  
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker  
No
I Drink  
Yes - Socially

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A  
Nerd
My Social Behavior Is  
Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Flirtatious
My Interest And Hobbies Are  
Reading, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Games, Theater, Cooking, Computers
My Idea Of A Great Time Is  
Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Playing Video Games, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be  
Dinner, maybe drinks, maybe something fun (axe throwing, escape room, etc.) or walk around somewhere interesting or pretty. If things click maybe cuddle up with music or tv or a movie. Keep things fun and relaxed.
I've Always Wanted To Try  
Heading north to see the Northern lights, learning shibari, hypnosis
My Friends Describe Me As Being  
Friendly, Goofy, A Flirt

Views

My Religion Is  
Agnostic
I Attend Services  
Never
My Political Views Are  
Very Liberal
My Goal In Life Is  
Be the better part of someone’s day
My Kind Of Humor Is  
Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure

Taste

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A  
Science Fiction, Comedy, Drama, Documentary, Animation, Horror, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To  
Rock, Metal, Electronic, Pop, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Punk
When I Read, I Always Read  
News, Biography, Fantasy, Fiction, Horror, Humor, Music, Poetry, Satire, Science, Science Fiction, Erotica
My Idea Of Fun Is  
Enjoying company, seeing something new, laughing at ourselves, sharing experiences

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?  
Wit, Flirtatiousness, Spontaneity, Sensitivity, Empathy, Humor, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence
What Do You Look For?  
Someone who loves themselves and seeks interactions out of want rather than need, sex-positive, affectionate, relentless, kinky, attentive, gently sadistic and/or playfully submissive, loves to tease and/or be teased, control and/or be controlled, respects boundaries, appreciates lots of aftercare
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?  
Internet Buddy, Friend, Date, Intimate, Other, Oral Sex, Domination, Bondage
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