Jefrey

Anglais

I’m cuddly with a dad bod and the jokes to match. Very switch, I enjoy either side of the gentle D/s dynamic. Not looking for a hookup. You can’t rush trust. People are people, not dopamine dispensers. Fairly new and exploring. Looking for people to talk to and get to know, maybe play eventually if we hit it off. Kind of dorky and on the spectrum, pretty self aware and actively seeking to love and appreciate myself more. Love to give and receive attention and affection.

Two years separated (still married for the healthcare benefits so that each can make ends meet, US healthcare sucks) in different states, with adult children living their best life. Understand that’s a hard limit for some, so want to be up front about it. Consent isn’t consent unless it’s informed consent. Happy to be someone’s wingman as well as play partner, and friend above all. No expectations and no pressure.

Capricorne

Quelques kilos en trop

6' 1 (1.85 m)

Caucasienne

Séparé/e

Oui - pas chez moi

Non

Yeux

Poivres et sel

Chat

Non

Diplôme d'études supérieures

Plein-temps

Education / Académique

Librarian

Seul/e

C'est plutôt calme

Non

Oui - socialement

Fana d'informatique

Observateur, Sympa, Comique, Séducteur

Lecture, Apprendre, Musique, Télévision, Films, Internet, Jeux, Théâtre, Cuisine, Ordinateurs

Sortir avec des amis, Rester à la maison, Faire de nouvelles expériences, Regarder un bon film, Me relaxer, Jouer aux jeux vidéos, Télévision, Aller à un concert, Aller au musée

Dinner, maybe drinks, maybe something fun (axe throwing, escape room, etc.) or walk around somewhere interesting or pretty. If things click maybe cuddle up with music or tv or a movie. Keep things fun and relaxed.

Heading north to see the Northern lights, learning shibari, hypnosis

Sympa, Neuneu, Un amour

Agnostique

Jamais

Be the better part of someone’s day

Sarcastique, Sympa, Neuneu, Obscur/e

Science-fiction, Comédies, Drames, Documentaires, Animation, Horreur, Thrillers

Rock, Metal, Electro, Pop, Classique, Blues, Jazz, Punk

Actualités, Biographies, Fantaisie, Fictions, Horreur, Humour, Musique, Poésie, Satires, Sciences, Science-fiction, Erotique

Enjoying company, seeing something new, laughing at ourselves, sharing experiences

Bon sens, Séduction, Spontanéité, Sensibilité, Empathie, Humour, Délicatesse, Intelligence

Someone who loves themselves and seeks interactions out of want rather than need, sex-positive, affectionate, relentless, kinky, attentive, gently sadistic and/or playfully submissive, loves to tease and/or be teased, control and/or be controlled, respects boundaries, appreciates lots of aftercare

Pote virtuel, Vrai‧e ami‧e, Rendez-vous, Relation intime, Autre, Sexe oral, Domination, Bondage