Jefrey

Engels

I’m cuddly with a dad bod and the jokes to match. Very switch, I enjoy either side of the gentle D/s dynamic. Not looking for a hookup. You can’t rush trust. People are people, not dopamine dispensers. Fairly new and exploring. Looking for people to talk to and get to know, maybe play eventually if we hit it off. Kind of dorky and on the spectrum, pretty self aware and actively seeking to love and appreciate myself more. Love to give and receive attention and affection.

Two years separated (still married for the healthcare benefits so that each can make ends meet, US healthcare sucks) in different states, with adult children living their best life. Understand that’s a hard limit for some, so want to be up front about it. Consent isn’t consent unless it’s informed consent. Happy to be someone’s wingman as well as play partner, and friend above all. No expectations and no pressure.

Steenbok

Een paar extra kilo's

6' 1 (1.85 m)

Blank

Uit Elkaar

Ja - Niet Bij Mij Thuis

Nee

Ogen

Halfblond

Kat

Nee

Bachelor

Voltijd

Bouw / Ambacht

Librarian

Alleen

Is het lekker rustig

Nee

Ja - Als ik uitga

Nerd

Opmerkzaam, Vriendelijk, Grappig, Flirterig

Lezen, Nieuwe Dingen Leren, Muziek, Tv, Films, Internet, Spellen, Theater, Koken, Computers

Met Vrienden zijn, Thuis blijven, Ik probeer graag nieuwe dingen, Films, Relaxen, Videospellen spelen, Tv, Naar een concert gaan, Naar een museum gaan

Dinner, maybe drinks, maybe something fun (axe throwing, escape room, etc.) or walk around somewhere interesting or pretty. If things click maybe cuddle up with music or tv or a movie. Keep things fun and relaxed.

Heading north to see the Northern lights, learning shibari, hypnosis

Vriendelijk, Gek, Een Flirt

Agnostisch

Nooit

Be the better part of someone’s day

Droge Humor / Sarcastisch, Vriendelijk, Gek, Obscuur

Science Fiction, Komedie, Drama, Documentair, Animatie, Horror, Thriller

Rock, Metal, Electonische Muziek , Pop, Klassiek, Blues, Jazz, Punk

Nieuws, Biografie, Fantasy, Fictie, Horror, Humor, Muziek, Poëzie, Satire, Natuurwetenschap, Science Fiction, Erotica

Enjoying company, seeing something new, laughing at ourselves, sharing experiences

Gevatheid, Flirterig, Spontaniteit, Gevoeligheid, Empathie, Humor, Bedachtzaamheid, Intelligentie

Someone who loves themselves and seeks interactions out of want rather than need, sex-positive, affectionate, relentless, kinky, attentive, gently sadistic and/or playfully submissive, loves to tease and/or be teased, control and/or be controlled, respects boundaries, appreciates lots of aftercare

Een Internet Vriendje, Vriend, Date, Intimiteit, Iets Anders, Orale Seks, Dominatie, Bondage