Jefrey

Engelska

I’m cuddly with a dad bod and the jokes to match. Very switch, I enjoy either side of the gentle D/s dynamic. Not looking for a hookup. You can’t rush trust. People are people, not dopamine dispensers. Fairly new and exploring. Looking for people to talk to and get to know, maybe play eventually if we hit it off. Kind of dorky and on the spectrum, pretty self aware and actively seeking to love and appreciate myself more. Love to give and receive attention and affection.

Two years separated (still married for the healthcare benefits so that each can make ends meet, US healthcare sucks) in different states, with adult children living their best life. Understand that’s a hard limit for some, so want to be up front about it. Consent isn’t consent unless it’s informed consent. Happy to be someone’s wingman as well as play partner, and friend above all. No expectations and no pressure.

Stenbocken

Några extra kilon

189 cm

Kaukasisk

Separerad

Ja - inte hemma

Nej

Ögon

Gråsprängt

Katt

Nej

Universitetsexamen

Heltid

Utbildning / Akademiker

Librarian

Ensam

Allt är lugnt

Nej

Ja - feströker

Tönt

Uppmärksam, Vänlig, Komiker, Flirtig

Läsa, Lärande, Musik, TV , Filmer, Internet, Spel, Teater, Matlagning, Datorer

Umgås med vänner, Stanna hemma, Prova nya saker, Bio, Tar det lugnt, Spela videospel, TV , Gå på konsert, Gå på museum

Dinner, maybe drinks, maybe something fun (axe throwing, escape room, etc.) or walk around somewhere interesting or pretty. If things click maybe cuddle up with music or tv or a movie. Keep things fun and relaxed.

Heading north to see the Northern lights, learning shibari, hypnosis

Vänlig, Tramsig, En flirt

Agnostiker

Aldrig

Be the better part of someone’s day

Torr / Sarkastisk, Vänlig, Tramsig, Obskyr

Science Fiction, Komedier, Drama, Dokumentärer, Tecknat, Skräck, Thriller

Rock, Hårdrock, Eletronisk, Pop, Klassisk, Blues, Jazz, Punk

Nyheter, Biografi, Fantasy, Fiktion, Skräck, Humor, Musik, Poesi, Satir, Vetenskap, Science Fiction, Erotik

Enjoying company, seeing something new, laughing at ourselves, sharing experiences

Kvickhet, Flirtighet, Spontanitet, Känslighet, Empati, Humor, Omtänksamhet, Intelligens

Someone who loves themselves and seeks interactions out of want rather than need, sex-positive, affectionate, relentless, kinky, attentive, gently sadistic and/or playfully submissive, loves to tease and/or be teased, control and/or be controlled, respects boundaries, appreciates lots of aftercare

En Internet-kompis, Vän, Dejt, Intimt, Annat, Oralsex, Dominans, Bondage