English

I think I'm a pretty normal ordinary guy - love taking long walks, spending nights in front of the telly with a DVD, glass of wine....except I'd have you on my lap while I make your bottom nice and red and warmed up for later....

I am looking for someone I can have that cosy 'vanilla' relationship with, but who is deep down submissive and whenever we are in public is always thinking about what may happen later when we are alone. I want to find someone my intellectual equal, but emotional submissive.

Why not chat - even if you're just curious or 'just browsing' - I won't bite (at least not yet)....

UPDATE: I have now found the most lovely partner and Kitten is the most perfect submissive I could ever wish to have. However I'm still happy to chat, be a friendly presence, guide here.

And you never know - if you're really curious I may let you chat to Kitten about one of her fantasies that is yet to be fulfilled and see if you might be the one to guide her in her first experience with another woman.....

Gemini

A Few Extra Pounds

6' 1 (1.85 m)

Blue

Caucasian

Committed Relationships

No

Not Sure

Eyes

Wouldn't Even Think About It

Brown

No pets

No

University Degree

Full-time

Research / Science / Engineering

Scientist will do for now....

$45,000USD To $59,999USD

Alone

All Is Calm

No

Yes - One Or Two

Brain

Reserved, Observant, Friendly, Comedic

Sports, Reading, Tv, Movies, Dining, Photography, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Gardening

Hanging Out With Friends, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Drinking, Playing Dress-up, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

Meet up for coffee and a chat somewhere quiet - perhaps a little walk. Or meet in a pub, followed by a movie / bowling / something like that to try and break the ice. I don't want to be pushy - at least not on the first date.....

Bondage/domination for real (not just 5 minutes of mucking about) - what else did you expect me to say! To have someone give themselves to me for a weekend, so we can both explore our fantasies...

Next to that, I've tried most things, and I'd happily chuck away any opportunities to ride in a hot air balloon, sky dive or drive an F1 car for that opportunity.

Friendly

Agnostic

Never

Liberal

'To leave this life having done more good than harm'

Seriously, short of finding the right life partner to share it with, I'm pretty much there.

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Goofy, Slapstick

News, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Sports

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Animation, Horror

Rock, Electronic, Pop, Classical, Blues, Punk

Auto-biography, Fiction, History, Horror, Instructional, Mystery, Science, Science Fiction, Technical

Scuba Diving - either here or abroad. Cinema (any film that's going), playing football/badminton/running, walking, museums. All the usual stuff (plus thinking about making that bottom of yours a bright red - I should be so lucky!).

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Oddities, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfullness, Passiveness

I may have ticked all the boxes I could, but who wouldn't! If I found someone with all that - great, but unlikely.

What I really want is someone who does actually know their own mind, who is perfectly capable of running their own life perfectly well thank you - but who still chooses to give themselves over to me. Someone whose deep down submissive desires I can satisfy and who can satisfy mine.

I do like the quirky, girl next door, types - but I don't have any preferences for specific looks. Overall 'attractiveness' might be important to me, but that comes in many different forms and all I can add to that is that usually any extremes at either end in terms of size, weight, height, etc are usually not my thing.

Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Domination, Bondage, Date