Englisch

I think I'm a pretty normal ordinary guy - love taking long walks, spending nights in front of the telly with a DVD, glass of wine....except I'd have you on my lap while I make your bottom nice and red and warmed up for later....

I am looking for someone I can have that cosy 'vanilla' relationship with, but who is deep down submissive and whenever we are in public is always thinking about what may happen later when we are alone. I want to find someone my intellectual equal, but emotional submissive.

Why not chat - even if you're just curious or 'just browsing' - I won't bite (at least not yet)....

UPDATE: I have now found the most lovely partner and Kitten is the most perfect submissive I could ever wish to have. However I'm still happy to chat, be a friendly presence, guide here.

And you never know - if you're really curious I may let you chat to Kitten about one of her fantasies that is yet to be fulfilled and see if you might be the one to guide her in her first experience with another woman.....

Zwillinge

Ein paar Pfunde zu viel

6' 1 (1.85 m)

Blau

Kaukasisch

Beziehungen mit Verpflichtung

Nein

Nicht sicher

Augen

Würde nicht einmal daran denken

Braun

Keine Haustiere

Nein

Universitäts-Abschluss

Vollzeit

Forschung / Wissenschaft / Technik

Scientist will do for now....

$45,000USD bis $59,999USD

Alleine

Alles ist ruhig

Nein

Ja - Eine oder zwei

Streber

Reserviert, Aufmerksam, Freundlich, Comedian

Sport, Lesen, TV, Filme, Essen gehen, Fotografie, Theater, Reisen, Kochen, Gartenarbeit

Mit Freunden ausgehen, Versuche neue Dinge, Filme, Entspannen, Trinken, Sich aufstylen, In ein Konzert gehen, In ein Museum gehen

Meet up for coffee and a chat somewhere quiet - perhaps a little walk. Or meet in a pub, followed by a movie / bowling / something like that to try and break the ice. I don't want to be pushy - at least not on the first date.....

Bondage/domination for real (not just 5 minutes of mucking about) - what else did you expect me to say! To have someone give themselves to me for a weekend, so we can both explore our fantasies...

Next to that, I've tried most things, and I'd happily chuck away any opportunities to ride in a hot air balloon, sky dive or drive an F1 car for that opportunity.

Freundlich

Agnostisch

Nie

'To leave this life having done more good than harm'

Seriously, short of finding the right life partner to share it with, I'm pretty much there.

Clever, Trocken / Sarkastisch, Albern, Witzig

Nachrichten, Dokumentationen, Dramen, Situations-Komödien, Filme, Sport

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romanze, Drama, Animation, Horror

Rock, Electronic, Pop, Klassik, Blues, Punk

Auto-Biografie, Fiction, Geschichte, Horror, Anleitungen, Mystery, Wissenschaft, Science Fiction, Technisch

Scuba Diving - either here or abroad. Cinema (any film that's going), playing football/badminton/running, walking, museums. All the usual stuff (plus thinking about making that bottom of yours a bright red - I should be so lucky!).

Intelligenz, Gutes Aussehen, Humor, Einfühlungsvermögen, Seltsamkeiten, Spontanität, Esprit, Nachdenklich, Passivität

I may have ticked all the boxes I could, but who wouldn't! If I found someone with all that - great, but unlikely.

What I really want is someone who does actually know their own mind, who is perfectly capable of running their own life perfectly well thank you - but who still chooses to give themselves over to me. Someone whose deep down submissive desires I can satisfy and who can satisfy mine.

I do like the quirky, girl next door, types - but I don't have any preferences for specific looks. Overall 'attractiveness' might be important to me, but that comes in many different forms and all I can add to that is that usually any extremes at either end in terms of size, weight, height, etc are usually not my thing.

Oralsex, Analsex, Dominanz, Bondage, Date