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I am mostly on this site just to find somebody to play with. Impact play is my favorite form of play, however I also have some experience and interest in Bondage, Candle Wax and Control games. I have a Violent Wand but have not enough practice to consider myself experienced but I am interested in changing that.


I am fundamentally honest and do my best to practice good communication skills. Given the potential risk of impact play. I expect anybody that will be on the receiving end of any spanking I do to also be honest with me and try to communicate clearly.

Because of this I will state to any reading this profile that unless we are pursuing some form of Romantic Relationship. I will not have sex with you nor will I promise not to play with or become romantically involved with anybody else.

I will however promise to keep the details of anything we do to myself unless you have given me explicit permission for those to be shared with others.

I also will not intentionally harm you, do note that will not harm does not mean their will not be pain and soreness. I define harm as something that may require outside medical attention.

I have never broken the skin of somebody I have spanked nor do I actually want to. I have left bruises that have lasted for weeks but I can not remember any time when I left bruises in which the spankee was not warned about the possibility and accepted the fact that bruising may occur.

I have received First Aid and CPR training and keep a first aid kit in my toy bag at all times. I have never had to use it but it has been on hand and should always be available if I am giving a spanking.

I am not any form of professional but there has been some degree of spanking in all of my relationships for the last ten years and I have spanked at some fetish parties I have attended. The fact I have been so involved with spanking without ever needing my first aid kit is something I am proud of and I would like to keep that record.

Because of this I will not do any spanking without a Safeword. I do not care if it is a partner I have had for years. I still expect them to have and use a Safeword if needed. It has seldom been needed but I still feel more comfortable knowing it is there.

I have a decent collection of Impact Play supplies including Canes, Straps (Various Sizes, all leather), and Paddles (Leather, Rubber and Wood). I do have some supplies for other types of play but not as much as for Impact Play.

I like the marks from using a cane and the strap stings greatly but does not usually mark and the redness fades quickly. Paddles tend to bruise which is normally only desired when giving a punishment.

Unless not doing so is a strong preference of the spankee I prefer to end any spanking with my hand over her bare butt and the application of aftercare lotion.

With romantic partners I also like to cuddle after giving them a spanking. However I respect that it is not usually appropriate for a non-romantic partner.

That concludes the long section on spanking tastes. Hopefully it has not scared anybody away but this is a BDSM themed site and Spanking is my favorite form of play so I wanted to get that information covered in much greater detail then I would do elsewhere.

Outside of spanking, I have the most experience with Bondage but have had a lot of inexperienced partners so i have had to limit my bondage to fairly simple things like hands and feet then cuddling with my partner while doing other things such as watching a movie.

I have done some candle wax and actually make candles for that purpose but i have this far limited myself to just try partner's back because of my limited experience and the comparative safety of the back vs other areas of the body.


I am basically Christen with a belief in the supernatural I do not attend church as I find the idea of needing to go to a specific building to speak with God, silly at best.

Thank you for reading.

Vissen

Gemiddeld

5' 11 (1.8 m)

Blauw

Blank

Nooit getrouwd

Nee

Niet Zeker

Ogen

Met Littekens

Iets Anders

Kat, Hond

Nee

MBO

Deeltijd

Nee

Ja - Als ik uitga

Stil

Gereserveerd, Opmerkzaam

Lezen, Knutselen, Internet, Spellen, Computers

Met Vrienden zijn, Relaxen, Een boek lezen, Videospellen spelen

Not sure about "ideal" but i generally prefer to meet in a public location, discuss interests and tastes, and if we have compatible interests. We could potentially either act on them or plan for a less public meeting in the future.

Vriendelijk, Cool, Obscuur

Christelijk

Slim, Droge Humor / Sarcastisch, Obscuur

Documentaires, Drama's, Educatief, Films

Actie, Science Fiction, Drama, Animatie

Rock, Metal, Electonische Muziek , Klassiek, Ambient

Anthologie, Computers, Fantasy, Fictie, Educatief, Satire, Science Fiction, Technisch, Bovennatuurlijk

Varies but generally related to Reading, Video Games, Or Tabletop Gaming

Gevatheid, Spontaniteit, Eigenaardigheden, Moed, Gevoeligheid, Empathie, Goed Uiterlijk, Bedachtzaamheid, Intelligentie

Primary requirement for a play partner is good Communication skills and Honesty. It should be noted that i do not play with Transgender people but can still be friends with them.

As long as a potential partner is Honest and has good communication skills, i can work with most things. Although i would generally prefer somebody that likes some element of impact play, it is not strictly required.

Een Internet Vriendje, Vriend, Iets Anders, Bondage