Anglais

I am mostly on this site just to find somebody to play with. Impact play is my favorite form of play, however I also have some experience and interest in Bondage, Candle Wax and Control games. I have a Violent Wand but have not enough practice to consider myself experienced but I am interested in changing that.


I am fundamentally honest and do my best to practice good communication skills. Given the potential risk of impact play. I expect anybody that will be on the receiving end of any spanking I do to also be honest with me and try to communicate clearly.

Because of this I will state to any reading this profile that unless we are pursuing some form of Romantic Relationship. I will not have sex with you nor will I promise not to play with or become romantically involved with anybody else.

I will however promise to keep the details of anything we do to myself unless you have given me explicit permission for those to be shared with others.

I also will not intentionally harm you, do note that will not harm does not mean their will not be pain and soreness. I define harm as something that may require outside medical attention.

I have never broken the skin of somebody I have spanked nor do I actually want to. I have left bruises that have lasted for weeks but I can not remember any time when I left bruises in which the spankee was not warned about the possibility and accepted the fact that bruising may occur.

I have received First Aid and CPR training and keep a first aid kit in my toy bag at all times. I have never had to use it but it has been on hand and should always be available if I am giving a spanking.

I am not any form of professional but there has been some degree of spanking in all of my relationships for the last ten years and I have spanked at some fetish parties I have attended. The fact I have been so involved with spanking without ever needing my first aid kit is something I am proud of and I would like to keep that record.

Because of this I will not do any spanking without a Safeword. I do not care if it is a partner I have had for years. I still expect them to have and use a Safeword if needed. It has seldom been needed but I still feel more comfortable knowing it is there.

I have a decent collection of Impact Play supplies including Canes, Straps (Various Sizes, all leather), and Paddles (Leather, Rubber and Wood). I do have some supplies for other types of play but not as much as for Impact Play.

I like the marks from using a cane and the strap stings greatly but does not usually mark and the redness fades quickly. Paddles tend to bruise which is normally only desired when giving a punishment.

Unless not doing so is a strong preference of the spankee I prefer to end any spanking with my hand over her bare butt and the application of aftercare lotion.

With romantic partners I also like to cuddle after giving them a spanking. However I respect that it is not usually appropriate for a non-romantic partner.

That concludes the long section on spanking tastes. Hopefully it has not scared anybody away but this is a BDSM themed site and Spanking is my favorite form of play so I wanted to get that information covered in much greater detail then I would do elsewhere.

Outside of spanking, I have the most experience with Bondage but have had a lot of inexperienced partners so i have had to limit my bondage to fairly simple things like hands and feet then cuddling with my partner while doing other things such as watching a movie.

I have done some candle wax and actually make candles for that purpose but i have this far limited myself to just try partner's back because of my limited experience and the comparative safety of the back vs other areas of the body.


I am basically Christen with a belief in the supernatural I do not attend church as I find the idea of needing to go to a specific building to speak with God, silly at best.

Thank you for reading.

Poissons

Normale

5' 11 (1.8 m)

Bleus

Caucasienne

Jamais été marié/e

Non

Pas sûr/e

Yeux

Cicatrices

Autre

Chat, Chien

Non

Etudes secondaires incomplètes

Mi-temps

Non

Oui - socialement

Calme

Réservé, Observateur

Lecture, Art & artisanat, Internet, Jeux, Ordinateurs

Sortir avec des amis, Me relaxer, Lire, Jouer aux jeux vidéos

Not sure about "ideal" but i generally prefer to meet in a public location, discuss interests and tastes, and if we have compatible interests. We could potentially either act on them or plan for a less public meeting in the future.

Sympa, Cool, Obscur/e

Chrétien

Intelligent, Sarcastique, Obscur/e

Documentaires, Drames, Programmes instructifs, Films

Action, Science-fiction, Drames, Animation

Rock, Metal, Electro, Classique, Musique ambientale

Anthologies, Ordinateurs, Fantaisie, Fictions, Programmes instructifs, Satires, Science-fiction, Ouvrages techniques, Surnaturel

Varies but generally related to Reading, Video Games, Or Tabletop Gaming

Bon sens, Spontanéité, Etrangeté, Audace, Sensibilité, Empathie, Beauté, Délicatesse, Intelligence

Primary requirement for a play partner is good Communication skills and Honesty. It should be noted that i do not play with Transgender people but can still be friends with them.

As long as a potential partner is Honest and has good communication skills, i can work with most things. Although i would generally prefer somebody that likes some element of impact play, it is not strictly required.

Pote virtuel, Vrai‧e ami‧e, Autre, Bondage