Not a newby and not a neanderthal either. In other words, a real man, not a boy, a 'player', a 'macho', or a pretender. There is an internal conflict in me between 'nice guy' who holds the door for the ladies, and is a true gentleman, and the 'nasty guy' who dominates and controls and wants to discipline. How should I resolve this conflict ? Words I think of that apply to me: honest, caring, humorous, intelligent, well read, interested, down to earth. You should be too. :-) Canadian 50 ish, moved from Canada to Europe, and wanting to meet women on either side of 'The Pond'. Could be, we just chat and are friends. Could turn into more.

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