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Waking up single and without a play partner for the first time in 20 years. Recently moved to Las Vegas and new to all of this online based socializing, so I appreciate you taking a look at my profile to see if we might find some things in common both in and out of the bedroom. Hoping to find some new friends, possibly a play partner looking for a safe and sane dom, and who knows, maybe even a wonderful woman to share the rest of life together.

I’m not a 24/7 “lifestyle” dominant, I appreciate a woman who is a strong, confident, smart and sexy equal partner outside the bedroom while enjoying the part of a struggling damsel in distress in the bedroom.

Have practiced a “Love Bondage” philosophy since college with a focus on providing submissive women with tight inescapable restraint and effective, mouth muffling gags. I prefer forcing orgasms vs. dishing out pain, but if my partner enjoys them, I can certainly wield a crop, paddle, or small whip and help them get their needs met there as well. I really enjoy incorporating plastic/latex oriented breathplay into my bondage scenes - makes for sincere struggles and killer orgasms… uh… pardon the pun. I’m a lifetime leg-man and love short skirts, high heels, and shiny hosiery and appreciate the women who wear them!

I've always loved making home-made movies and pics and envy the members who turned their passion for women in bondage into a business as well.

Aside from the bedroom talk, I’m a big guy at 6’2” 245 but fit enough to be a High-Red belt in Tae Kwon Do. That is right below a black belt, so if some thug ever attacks us with a rubber knife in an overly predictable stabbing motion - you’ll be glad I spent years kicking the crap out of enough defenseless wooden boards to build a house with. One of my goals, now that I'm finally settled in here in Vegas is to get back to working out regularly and losing about 30lbs.

I’ve been self-employed since age 29, having built and sold a business in Wisconsin before moving out here in 2010. I do hope you’re doing what you love and if you aren't I'll be the first to encourage you to pursue your passions.

I’m a long time member of Mensa, but my friends say I hide it very well (Jerks).

I’m an old school gentleman who treats the rare outstanding woman with the respect they deserve. If you know the “Love Languages” I offer big doses of physical affection along with plenty of verbal affirmation and quality time.

Now, that all great stuff said, be aware that you’ll quickly figure out that I am at least 15 degrees off “cool”. I don’t drive a Harley, jump out of working planes, or have tattoos and additional holes in my head (or body). I don't do facebook, play video games, text, tweet, chirp, or whatever the heck people do nowadays instead of actually TALKING with each other. On the flip side you’ll find I’m exciting when it counts and predictable when it is best to be.

New to dating, I took over a year off after my divorce (11 yrs) in 2009. This is the longest I have not been in a committed relationship since college, and now feel like I'm ready to start finding the right partner to enjoy the 2nd half with.

I prefer: Substance over Style
Real Life over Reality TV
Steak over Veggies
Netflix over Movie Crowds
Big Dogs over Purse Dogs
Bettie Page over Britney Spears
Cruises over Camping

I'm looking forward to see where my new freedom to explore the fetlife community and find new friends will lead. I hope to hear from, and meet local members with similar interests in the future. Thanks for reading! Play safe!

Virgo

Stocky

6' 2 (1.88 m)

Gray

Caucasian

Divorced

Yes - Not At Home

Not Sure

Eyes

Wouldn't Even Think About It

Salt And Pepper

No pets

No

University Degree

Self-employed

Finance / Trading

Alone

All Is Calm

No

Yes - Socially

Brain

Reserved, Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Flirtatious

Exercising, Reading, Music, Internet, Cars, Playing Cards, Gambling, Volunteering

Staying At Home, Relaxing

Somewhere quiet (with easily accessible exits, lol) where we can see if we enjoy each other enough to have a proper "first date". I enjoy live music, and they usually take a bunch of breaks, so thats always a good option. I'm a creative planner, so you can trust me (really) with planning something fun.

Always thought it'd be great to travel to Australia.

Friendly, A Flirt

Christian

Never

Conservative

Making new ones. Starting over after a 2009 divorce. Took over a year off for myself, now ready to look for a new partner to share my 2nd half with.

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic

Documentaries, Dramas

Rap, Rock, Pop, Blues

Business

Well this is a bondage dating site, so I'm not going to lie. There's nothing better than playtime, of course!

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Flirtatiousness, Wit

Spark - Lets face it, we know "it" when we find it.

Bondage, Date