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Artist, computer nerd, musician, forest creature, pervert. Married (to a woman, we're poly and very open) and a mother of three.

Sagittarius

Fit

5' 3 (1.6 m)

Blue

Caucasian, European, Other

Married

Yes - At Home

Yes

Hair

Pierced... But Only Ear(s)

Auburn / Red

Cat

No

Some College

Self-employed

Art / Music / Literature

All sorts of things.

$30,000USD To $44,999USD

With Kid(s), With Pet(s)

All Is Calm

No

Yes - One Or Two

Quiet One

Anti-social, Comedic, Flirtatious, Friendly, Observant, Shy, Strange

Arts & Crafts, Camping, Computers, Cooking, Dancing, Exercising, Family, Fishing / Hunting, Internet, Gardening, Learning, Music, Photography, Reading, Religion / Spirituality, Travel

Extreme Sports, Going To A Museum, Relaxing, Staying At Home, Trying New Things

Simple, quiet, intimate, still in a safe place but far enough from people that they can't eavesdrop on quiet conversation, no distractions. Ideally, the first date I had with my wife (ask me and I'll give you the whole story). Short version, she came to my house for breakfast, stayed for an hour, I took a 'leap' when she was leaving and kissed her, she kissed me back. After a long shift at work (11-12 hours) full of us flirty-texting all day, she came back and spent the night. She never left. We got married a year later. basically, I've already had my ideal first date and doubt it can ever be topped (lol).

I've already done so much yet there's always more to do. Sexually/kinkily, there's not much left other than to refine and repeat the things I like. outside sex/kink, I want to explore more of the world. I mean both different cultures as well as wilderness areas that few people have seen.

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Raunchy, Obscure, A Flirt

Other

Every Day

I Don't Like Politics

"My Goal In Life Is" Really? Who limits themselves to one goal? My goal is to live, to have a steady stream of goals. Ok, fine... My goal in life is to balance longevity of life with achievement of goals that both satisfy me and are also helpful to others. I find that balance by finding ways to survive an accomplishment long enough to share what I learned so that others might gain insight or inspiration from those things. If I'm not reasonably careful, it could mean I don't stick around long enough to share, that makes it a totally selfish act. If I'm too cautious, that means I'm less likely to experience anything of value, so again it's selfish because I have less to offer others.

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Obscure, Sadistic, Raunchy

Documentaries, Movies, I Don't Like Tv

Action, Science Fiction, Horror

Classical, Metal, I'm A Recording Artist

Ancient, Computers, Fantasy, Fiction, Health, History, Instructional, Mathematics, Nature, Philosophy, Poetry, Religious, Science, Science Fiction, Technical

Chiaroscuro. I like contrast. Part of my profession involves writing miles of code, which I consider a form of art. By contrast, I'd give up technology to live off the land, deep in the wilderness. I'm not an obsessive 'prepper' in the sense of stockpiling supplies. What I stockpile are skills, from a balanced mix of firsthand experience and research. Part of me hopes for society to crumble because I can survive it and help rebuild. At the same time, I'd rather avoid such a mess. Still, my children are quite well-prepared for such a thing.

Empathy, Flirtatiousness, Good Looks, Humor, Intelligence, Oddities, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

The absolute requirements: Some form of intelligence. A college degree doesn't mean much to me, I'd rather be with someone who has 'peasant wisdom' than someone who paid outrageous sums of money for a fancy parchment to hang on their wall. Humor. If you can't find humor in even the worst situations, that's often an indicator of someone who is dying instead of living. Compassion. If you lack compassion then you have issues that I probably won't want to deal with. Boobs. The question was "what do you look for?" and I look for boobs. Big, small, anything in between. I prefer boobs over genitals, at least for eye candy. Sorry, I had to add something silly after the three things that seriously matter.

Internet Buddy, Friend, Intimate, Other