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l started out in the lifestyle with no experience and later in life. So I have spent some time learning about being a dominant and now am looking to find a submissive female to start building a relationship with. So how did I learn about myself? It just came naturally. I am a army veteran and when I came back into the civilian world one of my first jobs was as a part time supervisor at ups. And I was good at it, I knew how to get the best out of my employees and not only earned their respect but also their loyalty. Then sometime down the road I was introduced to the lifestyle.

So began more self discovery and learning. I found just by looking at my life and the way I conducted myself at work. That in every aspect of life I was a dominant personality. Now while I enjoy making decisions and being in control I don't micromanage. And I am not a control freak. I love to listen, we have 2 ears and 1 mouth for a reason. And communication is very important to me. Without it nothing works. I am a caring person, I care how people feel and know that we all have needs. And the person I am with has needs that are just as important as mine. I love using floggers, dragon tails, restraints, and blindfolds. All kinds of toys are fun also. I'm looking for someone to build a long term relationship with not just a plaything or fuck buddy. I love amusement parks, the beach at night camping, and I am learning how to make leather toys. I'm a simple needs guy in real life, enjoying the quiet times. Love to curl up on the couch with that special someone and watch a movie. I enjoy camping and the outdoors, used to play golf but haven't in a few years. Not afraid to answer questions so anything you want to know just ask. Now with that said I find immense gratification when someone I am with submits. To have gained the trust and love from them that it takes to do that is something that is special. It goes much deeper than traditional relationship aspects of dating, love, marriage. The exchange of power, devotion, trust, and care is immense. I am a caring and loving person, but I enjoy the aspects of bdsm in play as well as in a relationship.

Aquarius

A Few Extra Pounds

6' 1 (1.85 m)

Blue

Hispanic/latino

Divorced

Yes - Not At Home

Not Sure

Eyes

Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Visible Tattoo

Dark Brown

Cat

No

College Degree

Full-time

Computers / Electronic

Technical Support Enigneer

$30,000USD To $44,999USD

With Roomate(s)

All Is Calm

Yes - Trying To Quit

Yes - Socially

Average Joe

Flirtatious, Friendly, Reserved

Camping, Computers, Internet, Games, Gardening, Movies, Sports

Clubbing / Bars, Hanging Out With Friends, Going To A Museum, Playing Video Games, Reading A Book, Relaxing

Just going somewhere chill and just get to know each other.

Friendly, A Flirt

Christian

Never

Middle Of The Road

Dry / Sarcastic

Dramas, Movies

Action, Comedy, Drama, Thriller

Country

Fiction, Horror, Science Fiction

Boldness, Flirtatiousness, Good Looks, Humor

Date, Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Domination, Bondage, Date, Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Domination, Bondage