English, Binary, Other

I'm a 45+ single white male traveler who just moved to the south bay area. I like to go to hiking, or camping in the mountains, I also enjoy going our for a meal, or to the movies, but I've been known to just sit around at home and watch TV or a movie; it's common for me to go for a walk listening to music on the farm where I live, and just enjoy nature.

I am 5-10/175, recently single and am looking for new friends.

Over the past 20 years, I've been turned on by the idea of a BDSM life, and have at times played some in the past, but now am looking for a relationship that starts with 2 people anchored with BDSM in common.

Some would call me a control freak, I would just say, I like what I like, and in my world I am the captian, or maybe it's because I grow up when I was told I could "have it your way", and that how I like it, my way - not that I am not open to new ideas.

I find myself attracted to younger white women, 20s, and 30s, but am open to others.

I am D&D free (and expect the same), 420 friendly, and I respect safewords.

Capricorn

Slim

5' 10 (1.78 m)

Hazel

Caucasian

Never Married

Yes - Not At Home

Not Sure

Eyes

Other

Brown

Cat

Yes

University Degree

Full-time

Computers / Electronic

General Manager

Less Than $14,999USD

Alone, With Pet(s)

There Is No Noise

Yes - But Non Tobacco

No

Nerd

Shy, Anti-social, Friendly

Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Travel, Camping, Playing Cards, Computers

Staying At Home, The Movies, Relaxing, Playing Dress-up, Playing Video Games, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

A good time ;) Dinner and a Movie, or maybe a walk along the beach, we could go to a museum or drive somewhere in the mountains, or maybe we just to window shopping and you tell me all the things you want to buy - Who are you, and what do you like?

An Ideal First Date would be a date where two people found something that lead to additional dates, something that is comfortable for both parties.

And I think that is really the point, finding a safe and comfortable way of conducting an interview, who am I? and what are you?

As such, an ideal first date is a successful interview in which both parties have learned something to help move towards additional dates.

There are so many things, I am unable to answer. I am willing to try new things, but putting it in to words seems harder then it should be.

I've always wanted to try ... [?]

Friendly, A Troll, Cool, I Don't Have Any Friends

Other

On Holidays

Very Liberal

To try and explore new things and Enjoy life to the fullest.

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Sadistic

News, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, I Wish I Had A Tv

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Thriller

Country, Rock, Pop, Jazz

I Don't Like Reading

Hiking, Camping, Traveling, Relaxing, Living, and Enjoying Life.

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Money, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness, Passiveness

A good time.

Secretive Sex, Anal Sex, Domination, Bondage, Vacation Fuck, Date, Just Wanna Fuck