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shadow9 Profile Information

Balance is Everything
Age 39 From Boston, Massachusetts - Online - Over 2 weeks ago
Man Seeking A Woman

Basic Information

I Can Speak  
English
I Would Describe Myself As  
I am a switch who is able to take life solo to a degree, but desire above most a form of emotional security and a cohort. I seek one who has no problem taking charge of the situation. Honestly, I am not the most socially sensitive creature, so I have little patience for excessive subtleties, and the needs for interrogating todays problems out of people. Just drop it on the floor.
In the bedroom, I seek someone who is willing to push boundaries. I am growing more of my dominant side, and yet have a almost pitifully submissive side.
Sign  
Virgo

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is  
Slender
My Height Is  
5' 7 (1.7 m)
My Eyes Are  
Brown
My Ethnicity Is  
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is  
Single
I Have Kids  
No
I Want Kids  
Not Sure
My Best Feature Is  
Eyes
Body Art  
Scarred
My Hair Is  
Dark Brown
I Have One Or More Of These  
Reptile
Willing To Relocate  
No

Status

My Education Level Is  
Some College
My Current Employment Status Is  
Full-time
My Speciality Is  
Other
My Job Title Is  
Apprentice Embalmer
I Make This Much In A Year  
$15,000USD To $29,999USD
I Live  
Alone, With Roomate(s)
At Home  
Friends Come Over Occasionally
I'm A Smoker  
Yes - Socially
I Drink  
Yes - Socially

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A  
Outcast
My Social Behavior Is  
Shy, Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Dark, Strange
My Interest And Hobbies Are  
Exercising, Learning, Music, Movies, Internet, Games, Religion / Spirituality, Theater, Cooking, Cars, Camping, Computers
My Idea Of A Great Time Is  
Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Trying New Things, The Movies, Reading A Book, Playing Video Games, Going To A Concert
An Ideal First Date Would Be  
Random, unexpected. Plan out the night on-the-fly. Catch the scenic viewpoints around the city, settle into a bar or club, and wing it from there. Eventually, depending on how things play, maybe make it to a more personal environment. From there, well, lets leave that up to the imagination...
I've Always Wanted To Try  
Becoming more social, i.e. more clubs, and citylife. I've been cooped up in the woods for a long time. The city, even though I know how it works, is yet an unexploited territory for me. I'm very used to nights out under the stars, wandering through a moonlit forest late at night, listening to the creatures, but sitting atop a building, late at night, watching the bustling world, caught up in its own act below me, is almost a fantasy. Especially if with someone who shares the same view.
My Friends Describe Me As Being  
Friendly, Raunchy, Obscure, Goofy, A Flirt

Views

My Religion Is  
Other
I Attend Services  
Never
My Political Views Are  
Socialist
My Goal In Life Is  
Way down the road, I aspire to become an embalmer at Dover AFB, or another US Military Mortuary facility. The honor of bringing someones loved one back to the point they remember, be it before illness, deployment, or just age, and seeing their happiness is amongst the greatest honor. Or at least, the spirit and passion to do as much as I can to get them as close to that as possible.
My Kind Of Humor Is  
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure, Raunchy, Sadistic

Taste

On Tv, I Always Watch  
News, Cartoons, Documentaries, Movies, I Don't Like Tv
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A  
Action, Science Fiction, Horror, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To  
Rap, Metal, Electronic, Classical, Vacuum Cleaner Noises, Industrial, Latin, Ambient, Dance, Reggae, Folk
When I Read, I Always Read  
Auto-biography, Biography, Classic, Fantasy, Fiction, Horror, Humor, Philosophy, Satire
My Idea Of Fun Is  
Anything different, and new. Speed, usually associated (not the drug). Also a creature of habit, for certain things. I have killed many hours, pouring over many cups of coffee with debate and philosophy. I love things that challenge standardized viewpoints, and frequently alter one's view of current reality.

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?  
Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Passiveness
What Do You Look For?  
Specifics are hard to pinpoint.Have an open mind. I have tastes that generally challenge common judgement and preference, though this is not to get into the "sick" category. Androgynous personality is a good point. I have in the past best been described as a true "lesbian in a mans body". I tend to react emotionally and even sometimes theorize almost identically with a feminine mindframe, however this is something I also tend to rationalize with my more masculine side. Opinions are of a certain necessity, but having many of them is best. Patience, and VERY easy going are almost a must. Other specifics are mentioned in the profile. In the "confrence room", I am a switch. I can take dominance so as long as all boundaries are cleared beforehand. I do not tend to pick up on subtleties too well, or if I do, I can tend to get the wrong message out of them. So someone who is Blunt and straightforward is Key.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?  
Group Sex, Anal Sex, Domination, Bondage, Date, Just Wanna Fuck
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