Interested in Taken-in-Hand/Domestic Discipline: "The depth of the power yielded by the submissive is equal to the level of responsibility assumed by the Dominant." -nzbdsm

Perhaps the best way to introduce myself is by telling You how I came to write this profile.

I am highly educated and well-traveled (internationally). I have little trouble attracting men, but -in the past- I have often found myself to be the stronger partner in the relationship. This has NEVER been satisfying to me! While I have no desire to give up my power in most arenas of my life, I have always wanted one Man that I could respect and trust enough to submit to Him completely. Yet, as with many people, I held stereotypes about the BDSM community for many years and, thus, never contemplated exploring it…

A few years ago, I came across Taken-in-Hand relationships. I felt like I had found the answer I had been searching for. Yet, unfortunately, I was unable to explore the possibilities in the relationship that I was in. Then, after that relationship ended, I spoke to someone who rekindled my interest in taken-in-hand relationships and inspired me to learn a bit more about D/s. In conclusion, after several months of thinking about and peripherally learning about the lifestyle, I am here. I have a lot to explore and learn, but I know that I am looking for a Man who will be my Sir and also be happy to act vanilla around friends and family.

Finally, although I might be interested in some degree of discipline, I am not interested in high levels of pain or more advanced levels of bondage. I have no respect for out-of control violence, whether physical or vocal (tone of voice, words, etc.), or unwarranted criticism. Your disapproval would generally be a severe enough consequence for any act of mine that might displease You.

I offer my apologies for the strong tone of this message, but if -after reading this- You are still interested in talking to me (whether for a possible relationship or as a mentor), I would be very interested in talking to You.

PLEASE NOTE: Whether wrong or right, I am educated enough that Your education matters to me. I am also attractive enough that Your looks matter to me.

Leeuw

Gemiddeld

5' 7 (1.7 m)

Bruin

Blank

Gescheiden

Nee

Piercings, maar alleen in mijn oren, Strategisch geplaatste tatoeages

Bruin

Hond

Nee

Bachelor

Voltijd

Bouw / Ambacht

Academic

Tussen de €45.000 en €60.000

Met Huisgeno(o)ten, Met Huisdier(en)

Komen er soms vrienden langs

Ja - Als ik uitga

Buitenstaander

Gereserveerd, Verlegen, Opmerkzaam, Vriendelijk, Flirterig, Gezellig

Lezen, Nieuwe Dingen Leren, Gezin, Eten, Theater, Reizen, Kamperen, Kaarten spelen

Met Vrienden zijn, Thuis blijven, Ik probeer graag nieuwe dingen, Relaxen, Slapen, Een boek lezen, Me verkleden, Naar een museum gaan

Coffee or a drink, something simple just to see if we want to see each other again.

Vriendelijk

world peace. (Okay, that is a bit of an exaggeration, but it does give the general idea).

Droge Humor / Sarcastisch, Vriendelijk, Gek

Documentaires, Drama's, Komedies, Films, Ik hou niet van tv

Actie, Komedie, Drama, Documentair

Autobiografie, Biografie, Fictie, Gezondheid, Educatief

I am open to, and enjoy, a wide variety of activities - from camping to the opera.

Intelligentie, Goed Uiterlijk, Goeie Vaardigheden, Moed, Flirterig, Bedachtzaamheid

Education is a must! From the list above, I am also attracted to someone with true power (as opposed to simply controlling behavior), empathy, and -to be honest- financial stability.

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