Steve

English

am a 50-55 year old white male, average height and weight seeking a similar but submissive woman for a consensual strict bondage encounter at a luxury hotel in the tourist areas of San Diego. I will take care of the hotel room and bring whatever supplies we need. I will ensure the encounter is secure, quiet, and just the two of us. I will be in charge. You will be able to live your submissive fantasies in a safe space. You can see yourself now, spread-eagle tied face up on the bed, naked, blindfolded, gagged and helpless, writhing and bucking as you explode over and over. You can make that happen.

Before the session we will take the time to understand limits, likes, and dislikes, and general compatibility. We will both have an understanding of what the other is seeking and what they can give. During the session you will be able to inhabit a different version of yourself that you hide from everyone: a submissive, sexual, physical woman who wants nothing but erotic connection, tension, and release without context or strings. You will leave your world behind for an afternoon or early evening, and leave all the details to me. No judgment, no second thoughts. You can just “be,” accepting everything without guilt, worry, insecurity or second thoughts. After the session we will go our own ways until we see each other again.

Consent is very important. Relative anonymity is very important. Sense of humor and expression and recognition of each other’s kinks is very important. I want to add your kink to the mix if you want to. I want to bring out your animal soul, if only for the time we’re in the room.

This offer is very specific on purpose. If it interests you, please consider responding. If it does not, thank you for reading this far.

If you have been looking for a one time fling that is outside your day to day world, a “bucket list” experience that you’d never actually put on your list, or a “50 shades of Grey” experiment, get in touch. I’m seeking someone who wants consensual bondage and submission without fear of markings, unwanted pain, un-agreed to extensions or judgment. Any sex is by previous agreement only, and is not as important as the dominant/submissive dynamic.

I’m not in a hurry, and I am generally available. Daytimes, weekdays, are best. This is a very specific request that requires a substantial amount of trust on your part, but, if it works, it will be an excellent experience and give both you and me intense and long lasting memories.
My Ideal Person You are a 45-55 year old woman who got super turned on by reading “50 Shades of Gray” but never got to act on her fantasies. You are not in a hurry.

You have taken care of your body, but are not a model or (overly) vain. You have always wondered what it would be like to meet a stranger in a hotel room and just surrender for the purposes of his and your pleasure.

You have other things going on in life and you aren’t looking for something permanent or even repeated. You have a bucket list and this has been on it for a while.

You know your body is desirable and you want to be desired. You have a few kinks that you mostly keep to yourself, but you want to let your freak flag fly a little bit.

Libra

Average

5' 9 (1.75 m)

Brown

Caucasian

Yes - Not At Home

No

Butt

Salt And Pepper

No pets

No

University Degree

Self-employed

Research / Science / Engineering

Alone, With Roomate(s)

All Is Calm

No

Yes - Socially

Brain

Reserved, Fire Starter

Reading, Camping

Trying New Things, Going To A Museum

Meeting you in a hotel room

Being a top in an extreme bondage scene.

Friendly, Troublemaker

Not Religious

Never

Democrat

Dry / Sarcastic

News, Movies

Rock, New age, Folk

History

Wit, Intelligence, Passiveness

Looking for a woman who wants to try submission with no strings attached.

Other, Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Secretive Sex