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In the vanilla world I am in the military and I am on a ship that gets deployed 1/2 the year to protect the water ways of the world. I enjoy doing my work and would truly hope to find someone that would understand that I have a job that is something I believe in even with its ups and downs. Why would someone take the time in the day for me when I am gone tyhat much? I would hope because I complete them and they know I am loyal to the one I am with.

I am Lebanese 5'6" roughly about 200 lbs (I am stocky). The gym to me consists of running, swimming (got to find a swimming pool here in NH) and using my own body weight to lose 30 or so lbs without losing my strength for right now. I am planning to get back into martial arts slowly now that I am in New Hampshire ( I have been in the Mudi Kwon Federation aka Tae Kwon Do ever since the age of 6). The outdoors to me is like a life line to my inner heart. Movies I enjoy everything, but God scary ones you might need to hold me tight ;). I love cooking and if I don't say so myself the steaks I cook are the bomb. I enjoy mixed drinks (I got one that I make that will make you want another one) and I am not much of a beer drinker and overall I don't drink like I used to which is fine with me.

A couple years ago I had a friend who I worked with that told me about the lifestyle. At that time I was going thru hard times in my personal and work life. He sat me down and called me out without me saying what my feelings were over a cold drink. Kind of funny how a person I spent barely any time with up to that point can call my true desires of being a submissive. We spent over 4 hours that one night talking about it and over the past three years became very good friends.

Since then I have had very little experience in this lifestyle, until recently in which time I have been able to go to munches and meet some awesome people and have had some things shown to me from a few of them that I didn't understand but was very much interested in. My foot and leg fetish is pretty much more massive than I thought it was. I thought I was a masochist but I have learned my tolerance is no where I thought it was and it is something I want to improve on. Puppy play is just awesome I love it. Overall I would like to be service oriented for the right Mistress

With this little experience I am someone that a Mistress can mold to her desires which is what I seek to fulfill and I do not want to come off as a do-me sub. Yes I do have the section of fetishes filled out but it is more important to please my Mistress in all her desires since BDSM to me is not only about the sexual desires of my own but importantly the Mistress's. In truth I believe that that both vanilla and BDSM have to fluctuate with each other and help create perfect harmony to make any relationship work (due to my work it is mandatory). I will not bow down to every domme/ mistress, but rather seek the ONE.

In truth I fall in between the four following categories:

1. Friendship: Without it there is no getting to get to know one another. In the end I am not seeking a one time thing or even just play partners, but in the end a partner for life
2. Submissive: I believe in still have a choice or safe word especially when first meeting someone. There is no way I will just jump to being a slave without being a submissive first
3. Pet: I love the idea of being at the Mistress's feet being a good dog. Having my ears scratched when I been good is so unspeakable.
4. Slave: In the end and only after being with someone and building a strong foundation give my life over to my Mistress.

I have been asked if I switch and to tell the truth I don't know if it is in me to be a top, tho I am willing to try it. I would rather worship a woman in a heart beat than to beat her into submission.

There is a time and place for everything

If one of you want to be great you must first be the servant. and if one of you want to be a servant you must be willing to last

Virgo

Stocky

5' 6 (1.68 m)

Black

Middle Eastern

Divorced

Yes - Not At Home

Yes

Chest

Scarred

Black

No

High School Diploma

Full-time

Military

Jack of all trades

With Roomate(s)

Friends Come Over Occasionally

Yes - Socially

Yes - Socially

Cool Dude

Friendly, Observant, Outgoing, Shy

Camping, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Computers, Cooking, Dining, Exercising, Internet, Gambling, Games, Photography, Playing Cards, Reading, Religion / Spirituality, Sports, Travel, Tv

Clubbing / Bars, Drinking, Hanging Out With Friends, Going To A Casino, Partying, Playing Video Games, Relaxing, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things

Is being able to converse with someone and to get to know them over a dinner and see where it goes

bdsm is something that intrigues me and I'll have to admit I love the Idea of submitting to a wondrous woman

Goofy

Christian

Once A Month

Republican

To find someone who can join me in this wondrous thing called life

Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure

News, Cartoons, Documentaries, Situation Comedies, Instructional, Movies, Sports, Re-runs

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Family, Animation, Horror, Thriller, Adult

Blues, Classical, Country, Electronic, Folk, Gospel, Jazz, New age, Pop, Punk, Reggae, Rap, Rock

Ancient, Auto-biography, Biography, Business, Classic, Comic, Computers, Erotica, Fantasy, Fiction, Health, History, Humor, Music, Mystery, News, Philosophy, Poetry, Political, Reference, Religious, Science Fiction, Sports

Playing sports, working out, hanging with friends and of course sex

Boldness, Empathy, Flirtatiousness, Good Looks, Great Skills, Humor, Intelligence, Money, Oddities, Passiveness, Power, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

A person that is willing to be open to her desires in life in general.
Someone that has the self confidence and is able send good vibes to her submissive/slave.
She wants to have something that will last.
A person that just doesn't let themselves go in body and mind.
An owner who understands that a submissive is human and is willing to help to mold him over time.

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed, Marriage, Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Domination, Bondage, Group Sex, Strap On Sex