English

Writer, 56, youthful look, 5?9? or 5?10? depending on your eye level and generosity, slender, blue eyes, dark hair, partly balding; enjoys intense but harmless, sensual and consensual role-play. Seeks warm, humorous, creative female friend who thinks deeply about whatever makes her feel strongly, who knows that ideas and laughter go well together, and who understands that great fantasy means staying always on healthy terms with reality.
Diversified portfolio of *imaginary* torments (kidnapping, asphyxia, humiliation, stripping, bondage, begging, and more); always with underlying respect, affection, consideration, and, not least, common sense. Am dominant but can comfortably switch roles, if desired, to see how the other half lives. As Shakespeare said (or was it de Sade?), "The play?s the thing."
I enjoy shockingly vanilla pastimes (the usual urban suspects): restaurants, concerts, museums, bookstores, zoos (where the passersby are often the most interesting exhibits), and walks to clear my head or enjoy the confusion. Above all, I enjoy spending time with individuals I find warm, clever, and imaginative in some way.
I have staged photo shoots with elite fetish models in scenes of bondage, fantasy asphyxia, domination, submission (well, everyone needs a hobby).
Ideally I seek one special female friend with whom to share a life-long bond (so to speak). But one miracle at a time. New England-New York area (and L.A. on occasion).

Gemini

Slim

5' 9 (1.75 m)

Blue

Caucasian

Divorced

No

Not Sure

Eyes

Wouldn't Even Think About It

Black

No pets

Yes

University Degree

Full-time

Education / Academic

writer

$100,000USD To $150,000USD

Alone

There Is No Noise

No

Yes - Socially

Brain

Reserved, Shy, Observant, Anti-social, Friendly, Comedic, Outgoing, Dark, Strange

Reading, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Games, Family, Dining, Photography, Travel

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

any setting that would let my date share a part of her life and to express whatever makes her feel strongly.

The categories above and below are well-meant but too rigid, too narrow, too conventional. Better free-form essay than a multiple-choice caricature.

As for something I've wanted to try, I'd like to write a history of the country and a book on B-movie actresses (not necessarily in that order).

Friendly, Troublemaker, Obscure

Jewish

On Holidays

Liberal

I would give the saying, "A Mind is a terrible thing to waste, " a twist. The mind seems to me the most delightful, devilish toy, capable of generating any idea, image, escapade, and intense feeling, and sharing tremendous rapport and pleasure. I hope I can make the most of this gift, at work, at play, and above all in friendships and relationships.

Clever, Friendly, Obscure

Movies

Action, Comedy, Horror, Thriller

Rock, Pop

Ancient, Auto-biography, Biography, Fantasy, History, Humor, Political, I'm An Author

to be with someone I find warm, humorous, intelligent, and imaginative (I hesitate just a bit to say "subversive").

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfullness

I would like to share a keen, lasting friendship and relationship with a bright, sensitive, warm, and humorous woman who thinks deeply about whatever makes her feel strongly; who knows that ideas and laughter go well together; and who understands that great fantasy (the more extreme and exotic the better) means staying always on healthy terms with reality.

Secretive Sex, Domination, Bondage, Date