Jen

Engels

Strictly a sub. I've always had bondage / loss of control fantasies. I'm definitely a submissive behind closed doors. In my everyday life I come off as aggressive and independent. (If only they knew). I've not dated a lot and never married. Most men I've dated couldn't challenge me both intellectually or physically. Now I don't mean I'm looking for the perfect adonis or Einstein, but if I can't hold a meaningful conversation with or be held down by my partner I get turned off.
I've done a lot of self bondage with rope, cuffs and straps using blindfolds and gags while my toys buzzed me through to orgasim. However, it was never enough because I never relinquished total control over to a partner. I've never been edged, never begged...never spanked. Strangly, I crave these things.
I've yearned to be tied down on my stomach while my dom chooses which hole to fill. Waiting in anticipation while a toy drives me over the edge into bliss or feel his fingers slide into my folds and play with my clit or pussy. To feel my dom climb over me and use his weight to push me into the bed and drive me back over that cliff while telling me how naughty I am.
I wish to please my dom but need a firm hand to steer me to what he wants if I don't arrive there on my own. Also to remind me of the destination if I veer off course. With either denial or a swat to the ass.
I'm not into exhibitionism or water sports. I think a relationship between partners is deeper and more pleasurable when it's not shared with the world. Something that is just for the two of us.
I'm not into hard core impact play but I love feeling a large hand smack my ass and squeeze my round cheeks.
I would love to be at my partners mercy while he fondled and kneaded my breasts or stimulating my nipples. Crushing his mouth over mine to silence my moaning and/or begging. Make my aggression and independence turn to whimpering pleas and moans as you, my dom, fuck me while I have no say. I want to see the pleasure in your eyes as you dominate me. As we relieve each other of the stresses of everyday life.
I believe in equals in the mundanes of a relationship but in the bedroom or the playroom I wish for a dominate man who knows what he wants from his sub and will take it.
I don't have a preference of race, we are all human drifting on this rock. I am an atheist, and ally to the queer community. Who the hell am I to judge, I mean I'm on a bdsm website looking for a dominate? I believe in not being dicks to each other and let people live their lives without interference from others. As long as it's two consenting adults, just be fucking happy while you can.
I'd like to email back and forth to test the waters and to make sure that our desires are mutually compatible.
A little about me outside of the bedroom. I'm definitely a geek who loves science, comics, manga and gaming online. And yes I go to comicon and cosplay. My closest friends do too. At the moment I have a pixie haircut with rainbow colors and a studed nose ring.
I'd rather read and write instead of channel surfing. I garden barefoot, dance with my pitbull to Zeppelin, and I play the air cowbell when I hear don't fear the reaper on the radio.
If I do watch TV, well you can guess my preferences but I also enjoy the classics and documentaries. I love a good horror movie as well as comedies as long as they are not shock and awe or stupid beyond belief. Unless it's based on a comic book, action movies should not go beyond the realm of what's physically possible. Also vampires don't sparkle...just saying
I have a wonderful job that I enjoy (except for the director) and ive always done it on my own. I have a good home in my childhood stomping grounds. So I'm not looking for a sugar daddy.
Im well centered and hate drama. If either of us call it quits, it's done.
If I haven't scared you off, I wait patiently for you to tell me what to do. I'll keep the toys charged.

Boogschutter

Dikkig

5' 3 (1.6 m)

Groen

Blank

Nooit getrouwd

Nee

Niet Zeker

Ogen

Zichtbare tatoeage

Donkerblond

Kat, Hond

Bachelor

Voltijd

Kunst / Muziek / Literatuur

Tussen de €45.000 en €60.000

Met Huisgeno(o)ten

Komen er soms vrienden langs

Nee

Ja - Als ik uitga

Nerd

Luid, Grappig, Gezellig, Raar

Lezen, Knutselen, Nieuwe Dingen Leren, Spellen, Tuinieren, Kamperen, Computers

Met Vrienden zijn, Ik probeer graag nieuwe dingen, Relaxen, Een boek lezen, Me verkleden, Videospellen spelen

Having a drink alcohol or non alcohol. See if we click, finding a place we both enjoy. If all goes well a little flirting and some intimate touching.

Giving myself to my partner. Being 100% bound to a bed.

Niet religieus

Camp, Slim, Vriendelijk, Gek, Ranzig

Tekenfilms, Documentaires, Educatief, Films

Actie, Science Fiction, Komedie, Animatie

Rock

Fantasy, Fictie, Science Fiction, Erotica

Trying something new that takes me out of my comfort zone, camping, travel by car or train.

Gevatheid, Spontaniteit, Moed, Empathie, Humor, Bedachtzaamheid, Intelligentie

Een Internet Vriendje, Date, Dominatie, Bondage