What do you call something that's vanilla on the outside, but dark and hot on the inside? I don't know, either. But that's pretty much what I am: kinky as hell, but you could take me home to mother, too.

I'm just starting to play at BDSM in real life, getting to know folks in the local "community, " attending the odd munch or play party. I've learned that I NEED to submit, but not to just anybody. Trust and respect are everything, and those don't come in the same box with a shiny new "Domme" label.

I hope to build long-term friendships with people who are as deviant as I am, and hope that one of those relationships becomes permanent. For now, it's a matter of meeting and getting to know folks.

What scratches my itch in a woman is calm control, not sneering bitchiness. Not looking for a fantasy fetish model, but I'm an athlete and am attracted to those who take care of themselves. Let's get to know each other as people, then we can talk about the many buttons I have that may be pushed.

Good Hunting,
Quietlisten

Leeuw

Athletisch

5' 8 (1.73 m)

Blauw

Blank

Single

Nee

Nee

Kaal

Kat

Nee

Bachelor

Voltijd

Alleen

Is het lekker rustig

Nee

Nee

Stil

Gereserveerd, Opmerkzaam

Met Vrienden zijn, Extreme sporten, Een boek lezen

Meeting as "regular" people over coffee or lunch in public. If that goes well, probably another deeper discussion in person publicly.

... being normal. Nahhhh... why start now?

Vriendelijk, Obscuur

Ik hou niet van tv

Humor, Empathie, Moed, Macht

I look for a woman who demonstrates competence and judgment in the way she manages herself and her own life first, how she treats others second.

Dominatie, Bondage