I am very much into function over form...it's far more important how it FEELS , rather than how it sounds or looks .The way that I am and they way I express that is not a result of wanting to be part of a "scene" or because of anything other than who I am through & through.... ...That I clearly fit into the category labeled Dominant. is not because I follow a format, a punch list, want to play a role or be part of a scene..it's simply because I have no choice or desire to be any other way!

I see little point in long drawn out email exchanges, or one line repartees back & forth......2 or 3 emails should be more than enough to be wanting to talk to me on the phone , hear my voice ( as I would want to hear yours) and see if the real begins to match the words...... if that works for us both..we meet ...as the chemistry is either going to be obvious and will be there or not.

You should be ,geographically, close enough that you can meet me or be in my zip code within an hour or so....also if you are unable or choose to not provide a recent picture of yourself when I ask for it....then again your either not interested enough or are here for some reason other than the obvious ....which is to meet someone that can fulfill your needs and hopefully more. Finally: You should be interested in doing and being the way I want ( and need you to be) you to be and do ..not because I say I want it that way..but because YOU want it that way!

If you know who and how you are and you understand more than just tag & titles you know that to submissive is not to be a doormat or weak or simply to say yes dear or yes master...it is , in fact a choice, a desire a need to be with someone who is strong enough for you to truly let yourself go......release is about giving up the the power you have because you trust..trust is as loyalty not lightly given but once obtained , unquestioned.

I know who I am..the good and the bad...and I like who I am and you will know that.....there will be no confusion about what I want and what I expect ... .....you are a woman who knows when it's time to be you and her your own.....and when it's time to be mine.

In the "Real World."... short term or long term ( if it 's 'right" it will be long term) , it's as simple as what works and feels right..... I know what I like ( and what I don't ) and how I like it ........If you're honest with yourself , you know the same about you.

Of course "Long term" and "Tonight" are different concepts but while "punch lists" may fit or not , If there's real chemistry (or at least enough to want to see what we, to each other, taste like, feel like, smell like) and after determining that we really care enough to find out the "who we are", the "where we are" and the "where we're headed " ... we can then deal with what we do agree and what we agree to disagree on.

There's no "working" on chemistry...it's either there or it's not! It's not only about physical attraction ( sex or sexuality) but without it what's the point? So until that's established there's no reason to waste each other's time with pro forma ( no pun intended). "beating around the bush" ....the switch is either on or off and while, of course very little is black & white , everything is a lighter or darker shade of gray ..so , again, if you trust your the right choice is always right in front of your face!

I'm really tired of the posers & wannabe's ( for me ,female & I'm sure for you male) that troll these sites..........but nothing ventured nothing gained........and for me it's, no question, better one hour as a lion..than a lifetime as a lamb.

Everyone says they're different ..I really am ..and you'll have to be also.....in order to wan to know more about me and more importantly for me to want to know more about you.

Ram

Gemiddeld

6' 0 (1.83 m)

Bruin

Blank

Single

Nee

Nee

Ogen

Ik zou er niet eens aan denken

Halfblond

Kat

Nee

Bachelor

Zelfstandig

Kunst / Muziek / Literatuur

Principal

Meer dan €150.000

Alleen

Is het rustig

Nee

Ja - Als ik uitga

Klassenclown

Luidruchtig, Opmerkzaam, Anti-sociaal, Vriendelijk, Grappig, Feestbeest, Baas, Flirterig, Gezellig, Donker, Raar

Knutselen, Muziek, Fotografie, Koken, Computers

Met Vrienden zijn, Thuis blijven, Relaxen

Een herrieschopper, Cool, Perfect, Ranzig, Obscuur, Gek, Een Flirt

Spiritueel Maar Niet Religieus

Nooit

I'll tell you when both of us care enough to care!

Slim, Droge Humor / Sarcastisch, Obscuur, Ranzig, Sadistischh

Nieuws

Ik ben een filmacteur

Rock, Klassiek, Blues

Ik ben een schrijver

My idea of "FUN"? C'mon give me break!

Intelligentie, Goed Uiterlijk, Humor, Goeie Vaardigheden, Moed, Spontaniteit, Gevatheid

Maybe you...there's no punch list I need to match!

Orale Seks, Dominatie, Bondage