I've been( living ) the lifestyle for 15 plus years my sub was recently uncollared....., reason being we agree she had reached her Freedoms and Absolutes within my guidance. I am part of a community in which i do participate and expect my sub also to. Im 47 years old everything is always safe sane aon consensual i do respect all safe words from my sub realizing the control that a Dom has starts with the sub, His control starts with her willingness and openmind.

Virgo