tommy

I live a dominant life working in a dominant business environment (I own the businesses). If a relationship with a A personality is difficult for you, then we are not a match. I would like to try the submissive side, even though I list as a switch.
Using this isolation time to read and use auto books, ie get more education and knowledge. The current autobook is the series The MarketPlace, intoxicating, but wonder about everyday living, finances, insurance, retirement. But taking it as a buffet, thinking about what is ok, what would be soft limits and what would be hard limits.
A book came early, so now reading "Uniquely Rika" .
Also read (audio book), book 3 now of "the Marketplace" series.
Read "Finding Love through Female Domination".
In both Uniquely Rika, and "Finding Love...." at first seem to say, the sub male has nothing to do in a 24hr day but to do services for the dominate female. Perhaps I see this wrong, but will think more about it as I get further into the books.
Seems there are as many wants, kinks and fetishes as there are people.
Am on the journey from being dominant all my life to being submissive.
To expand my experiences, help is required from a discrete female dominant who likes to explore.
I wish to push the boundaries of my experience, thus expanding the list of fetishes this pervert has done. I need to hard limit blood play, while keeping a low profile, ie need to be very discreet in general public. The discrete dominant, non professional, lady will choose which boundaries to push and how far. I do not know my pain limits either.
Also in process (does it ever stop) of learning rope skills as a rope top.
Previous relationship with a pro dominant woman is over. She has retired from the business, and it was a business to her. Many things she said would happen never did, to me that shows lack of integrity. Even though in most profiles she said was not a pro, she was. And treated all things done to help as payments to her, I took it as trying to help her develop an self employed, non dominant, business.
WOMEN I WISH TO MEET about the same mental/emotional characteristics that most women want of men. Dominant women are human beings, not just a deliverer of kinks. Intelligence, sense of humor, adventurous, likes life are great attributes, I appreciate. Now the old physical requirements (not really requirements but desires), takes cares of one's health, dresses to enhance her features, I like petite (sort of adds to the surrender, big strong guy to the petite female). Large nipples over large breasts, discreet in general public.
FEMALE ROPE BOTTOM in order to learn more and practice rope work.
D/s ACTIVITIES have done and enjoyed. Those listed in fetishes I have been fortunate to have participated, kneeing ball busting, light (stingy type, and heavy bruising) paddling (spanking) some cbt and nipple torment, zip line, fire play on my back (to much hair on front would really stink), being of service, chastity, and tease. To add to tease, silky underwear, male and female (including panty hose, stockings and thigh highs), have been done. It is not so much wear of female clothes but the adds tremendously to mental submission especially with the verbal talking by the dominant female. I did find the compression black panty hose helped my legs on "leg day" at the gym. Learning rope to tie others at this point. A tad of experience but learn well off video. I did learn that a women's hips are better for the Leto Hip Harness than a mans (self tie). The thought of discrete cbt and other actions that though done in general public are private. Of course with her having "that smile" on her face knowing what is going on. Which would include "the key" hanging her neck so all see but not understand.
Those fetishes listed in "curious" are ones I would really like to try.
OUTSIDE OF D/s activities I enjoy wood working, motorcycles, food gardening, and I am getting back into photography. I also consult with trouble young folks

Wassermann

Muskulös

5' 9 (1.75 m)

Kaukasisch