I'm a nurturing Domme looking for a young man who loves to explore. Intelligence and compassion are a must, along with an open mind. Gentleness is important to me, to an extent: I'm not a sadist but I do enjoy heavy scratching (that sometimes draws blood) and sharp biting. I have a preference for younger, innocent types and possibly the incorporation of cross-dressing. Intimately familiar and comfortable with my own body, I know exactly what I want and I enjoy telling you how to give it to me.

I'm an incredibly open-minded person, something that often comes with the territory of being pansexual. Between my glasses and my job as a writing tutor, I tend to have the "sexy librarian" look going on, which lends itself well to certain scenes.

Despite the trend to the contrary, I believe that trust, especially in a BDSM relationship, is earned, not demanded. Trust is vital to the survival of any relationship and central to the theme of safe, sane, and consensual activity.

Aquarius

Curvy

5' 11 (1.8 m)

Brown

Caucasian

Single

No

Yes

Lips

Pierced... But Only Ear(s)

Light Brown

Cat

No

Some University

Student

Student

Writing Tutor and Instructor

$15,000USD To $29,999USD

Alone, With Pet(s)

All Is Calm

No

No

Brain

Observant, Flirtatious

Arts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Internet, Games, Dancing, Religion / Spirituality, Theater, Computers

Hanging Out With Friends, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Playing Video Games, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

Playing board games and talking late into the night or seeing a thought-provoking play and discussing it afterward over hot chocolate or tea.

Traveling in a foreign country without a translator or guide; playing the drums. In a sexual sense, I've always wanted to feminize a younger man.

Friendly, Obscure, A Flirt

Other

Never

Very Liberal

To promote understanding and compassion through acts of kindness and a career of helping people help themselves.

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Obscure

Situation Comedies, Movies

Science Fiction, Comedy, Drama

Country, Rap, Rock, Electronic, Pop, Classical, Latin, New age, Dance, Soul, Folk

Classic, Fantasy, Fiction, Humor, Mystery, Poetry, Satire, Science Fiction

Building a fort in the living room and snuggling with my lover in it while we watch a movie; staying up all night playing board games with friends; going on a long, scenic walk just to enjoy the Earth; looking up the guitar chords to my favourite songs and seeing if I can play them on the piano; browsing musty used book stores...

Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

I am drawn to intelligent, sensitive young men who are mature yet fun-loving. I want someone who is definitely a fully-functioning adult but yet would enjoy being submissive. Submissive does not mean passive, though; I don't want someone who doesn't have an opinion about anything or never shows any emotions. I want someone who is opinionated and passionate, yet deferential.

Secretive Sex, Domination, Bondage, Date