I'm a dominant and a sadist. The problem I've run into is finding people my own age. I started younger than I should have although I realized I was different pretty young and started researching in middle school. I've had BDSM relations since I was 16. However, they've always been much older than me. I'm 22 now and would like someone closer in age. I'd like a relationship, not just another play partner. I rarely go to events now for a number of reasons. I can be kind of intense during sessions. I prefer to get to know the sub first, go over consents, and have lengthy discussions about what they are and are not okay with. Someday, I'd like 24/7 sub/slave/wife. Although, that goal is some time away. I currently work full-time and go to college.

Neitsyt