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My name is Sterling. I am a 30 year old Dominant female. My husband is Ansuz. He is a 34 year old Dominant male. We are seeking a girl to be a 24/7 slave within our home, which is located in Clarksville, Tennessee.

We are also looking for play partners or friends of any gender or orientation.

We do not swing or swap.

We do not engage in casual sex.

Ansuz and I have both been poly and leather for over a decade each. We have both been in poly relationships before we met, and while we were a couple. We also have owned slaves and trained submissives both as individuals and as a couple. We are very aware of the time and dedication involved in both lifestyles.

We have a stable marriage. We have been together about five years now and married for over three. Our relationship started as poly with another man, which ended amicably due to a job relocation. We took some time to ensure our relationship was healthy before seeking anyone else to add to the mix.

While not sexually active outside of our marriage at this time, we are both bisexual, not bi-curious. We both have had multiple partners and relationships of the same sex, so we know we aren't looking for a fling, just sex, or to “spice things up” in our bedroom. We also know for a fact that we both take great pleasure in watching our partner with one of their loves.

We are a successful couple, who are financially stable, own our own home and Ansuz holds a job in the medical profession, while I am preparing to go back to school for a Master's in Psychology. While Ansuz's job does require some basic considerations for discretion while in our hometown, we are out and open to our family and friends. You will not be a dirty secret or a shadow unless that is your wish that our relationship remain private.

Ansuz and I are very well-trained and experienced Dominants. We both spent around three years each under the tutelage of other Dominants, and we also have taken hours of classes, workshops, and seminars to be creative and safe in our activities. We train from manuals we have written with the aid of reference material to ensure a high quality and consistent training period for any slave we contract.

We have many interest in the realm of BDSM that include TPE, 24/7, collars, leash training, domestic and formal service, voice training, sexual control and corporal play in almost all of its forms. However, BDSM isn't the sum of our existence. Outside of the dungeon we enjoy fine dining, travel and sight seeing, swimming, bowling, movies, thousands of books, theater, museums, woodworking, arts and crafts as well as some geeky things like video games, Dungeons and Dragons along with other RPG's, and some fan-doms.

Our ideal girl is someone we can connect to on multiple levels, including those outside the realm of BDSM. We would like to be able to converse with her intelligently, take her on vacations or excursions to galleries or museums, and share our hobbies. We want our girl to be someone we can share our life with as a treasured part of our family. We want her to have pride in her collar and know that she is protected and safe with us. Our girl will not be a toy or an accessory that we tire of and toss aside, but a true member of the family.

On a purely physical level, we have few requirements. We ask that anyone interested be 20-40 years old. To a fine degree that is negotiable but absolutely no one below the age of 18. She should also be of a healthy weight. This does not mean skinny, slender, or a twig, however, we do not find obesity nor anorexia attractive or healthy. Drug and disease free is a must. We can and will provide clean test results if the relationship progresses to such a point.

If this sounds like a situation you would be interested in, we are happy to speak with you online, by telephone, or in person at a public cafe or restaurant. We hope to hear from someone soon.

Sincerely,
Sterling and Ansuz

Scorpio

Thick

5' 6 (1.68 m)

Brown

Caucasian

Married

No

No

Eyes

Inked All Over, Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Scarred, Visible Tattoo

Dark Brown

Cat

No

College Degree

Student

Education / Academic

Housewife to Student

$45,000USD To $59,999USD

With Roomate(s), With Pet(s)

Friends Come Over Occasionally

Yes - Socially

Yes - One Or Two

Brain

Observant, Comedic, Outgoing, Dark

Arts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Internet, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Dancing, Family, Dining, Religion / Spirituality, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Playing Cards

Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Clubbing / Bars, Reading A Book, Playing Dress-up, Playing Video Games, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

Meeting in person at a coffee shop and just talking.

Owning a stable with my husband.

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Cool

Other

Once A Month

Middle Of The Road

Get a Master's in Psychology so Ansuz can take a few years off when he retires to just relax before he gets a new job.

Campy, Dry / Sarcastic, Sadistic

News, Documentaries, Dramas, Instructional, Movies

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Drama, Horror, Thriller

Rock, Pop, Industrial, New age, Folk, Punk

Anthology, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Horror, Humor, Mystery, Philosophy, Religious, Science Fiction

A hot scene, a good training session, a great book, or a night on the town.

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Passiveness

An intelligent service and pain oriented submissive female who is not bratty.

Domination, Bondage, Date