English, French

Never been able to shake the thrill that an ex who turned pro dom for awhile provided, but we have been apart for a long time. It's once again an itch I need to scratch badly.Ideally I guess I'd like to find a relationship which incorporates dominance and submission in a fluid manner. Enjoy equally the role of strong dominant, especially spanking, rope/leater bondage and crafting inventive scenerios, as well as being slavishly submissive and being subjected to punishment of all sorts. I love taking absolute control but another part of me loves completely giving up that control. My dream girl or special friend is tied to bed and begs for my belt one night, while another she gets a gleam in her eye and Im bound and gagged and made into her bitch. Either set up with the right person could be completely satisfying though. Very turned on by idea of watching other couples of every combination, but never had it happen. A huge spectrum of experimentation is sought, the more spontaneous and open minded the person the better. I read quite a bit - literature, philosophy, politics and religion and appreciate greatly an inquisitive nature and love of books in a partner. "Intellectual" is probably the sort of person I am most compatible with, but there have been some definite exceptions. I enjoy chess . Early 30s dark blonde longer hair, 6'1 155 lbs, grad school. Music - blues, classic rock, punk and old jazz - are very important to me. I hike often, sometimes travelling to do so. Don't smoke, but drink socially, somewhat often. Occasionally indulge in other things but not consistently. I can appreciate a really wide range of attractive women, the only necessity being a healthy weight and intelligence. I want to delve deeper into all kinds of activities while I'm still young enough to really enjoy them.

Aries

Slim

6' 1 (1.85 m)

Blue

Caucasian

Single

No

Not Sure

Hair

Other

Dark Blonde

Cat

No

Some University

Part-time

Legal

Research assistant, paralegal

$15,000USD To $29,999USD

Alone

Friends Come Over Occasionally

No

Yes - Often

Brain

Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Flirtatious, Outgoing

Exercising, Reading, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Dining, Religion / Spirituality, Theater, Travel, Camping

Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Drinking, Reading A Book, Playing Dress-up, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

On a "date", this could be so many things but I guess Intelligent conversation with kind girl who can't stop laughing and teasing me throughout dinner at a nice restaurant, a more than adequate amount of wine, a great live guitarist, then I suppose whatever my partner might be comfortable with after we have gotten to know each other.

There are quite a few things; but snorkeling and exploring a coral reef, hiking the high desert and the pyramids of Central America top the list with regard to that kind of stuff.

On the other end of things, extended role playing, and scenerios involving people watching and being watched. Maybe two guys and a girl, or two girls with me. To feel really empowered and trusted for a while as the twisted but attentive master to a girl with voracious appetites and a gorgeous ass. On other occasion to surrender that power and become a little obedient bitch, rewarded with black boots and formidable strap ons. The thrill of a girl much older or younger, dangerously but legally so. Perhaps this is too detailed, pretty new to this...

Friendly, Obscure

Agnostic

Never

Libertarian

Return to school to obtain a masters degree in the field of historic preservation and find engaging work in that area. To explore more beautiful places here and abroad, hopefully with someone I have a deep connection and lots of fun with. To learn to play the guitar, at least a little.

Campy, Clever, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure, Raunchy

News, Documentaries, Movies

Science Fiction, Drama, Documentary, Horror

Rock, Metal, Blues, Jazz, Soul, Punk

News, Ancient, Comic, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Horror, Nature, Philosophy, Political, Religious, Satire, Science, Science Fiction

Learning from people and books, laughing at myself, being around kind and complex people, great live music, hiking and outdoor exploration, especially in the Western U.S. Creating shared worlds with a person who is special to me. Spontaneous adventures of every sort, from surprising sex to woodland trecks at night.

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness, Passiveness

Adventuresome partner with intelligence, empathy and dark wit. Highly experimental and maybe slightly mad. I especially appreciate the right words and stories from the mouth of a beautiful woman, and could get off with these alone. She loves to read, and opens up her mind along with everything else. We play exciting games together, or maybe even with others . Ideally we'd switch things up, but thats not necessary. She lets me pick out black leather for her .

Secretive Sex, Group Sex, Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Domination, Bondage, Date, Just Wanna Fuck