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submissive currently looking for a Dom
Age 53 From El Cajon, California - Online - Over 2 weeks ago
Woman Seeking A Man

Basic Information

I Can Speak  
English
I Would Describe Myself As  
I'm here to experiment more with my sexuality. Ask me anything and I will answer to the best of my ability. I am new to the lifestyle as far as admitting to myself that I am a submissive. But if I have to really think, I've been this way since I was 18 and got off after reading my first Anonymous Victorian Erotica.

I am not into pain, but want to explore what my limits are.

I feel like I'm at a crossroads. I work like almost 100 hours a week. Well I should say 40 hours is my real job and the rest are my fun hours of work where I write on geeky things and pop culture. I feel that I am losing myself to work, which leaves me no time for a social life. I guess I am looking for a wake up call? Sometimes i feel like I have no control over my life and other times I do.

Looking for people to chat with, preferably close to the area, you know in case we wanna hang for coffee or whatever.
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Taurus

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is  
Big And Beautiful
My Height Is  
5' 8 (1.73 m)
My Eyes Are  
Brown
My Ethnicity Is  
African American
My Marital Situation Is  
Divorced
I Have Kids  
Yes - At Home
I Want Kids  
No
My Best Feature Is  
Eyes
Body Art  
Visible Tattoo
My Hair Is  
Dark Brown
I Have One Or More Of These  
No pets
Willing To Relocate  
No

Status

My Education Level Is  
Some College
My Current Employment Status Is  
Full-time
My Speciality Is  
Other
My Job Title Is  
Customer Service
I Make This Much In A Year  
$30,000USD To $44,999USD
I Live  
With Kid(s)
At Home  
It Gets A Bit Crazy Sometimes
I'm A Smoker  
No
I Drink  
Yes - Socially

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A  
Class Clown
My Social Behavior Is  
Comedic, Friendly, Observant, Outgoing, Shy
My Interest And Hobbies Are  
Arts & Crafts, Cooking, Family, Internet, Learning, Movies, Music, Photography, Tv
My Idea Of A Great Time Is  
Hanging Out With Friends, Going To A Concert, Partying, Reading A Book, Relaxing, The Movies, Trying New Things, Tv
An Ideal First Date Would Be  
Chat over coffee
I've Always Wanted To Try  
Don't know yet... Will come back to this
My Friends Describe Me As Being  
Friendly, Troublemaker, Cool, Raunchy, Goofy, A Flirt

Views

My Religion Is  
Christian
I Attend Services  
Never
My Political Views Are  
Democrat
My Goal In Life Is  
Is to be happy with that special someone. Already got a lot going on, so for now that is my goal.
My Kind Of Humor Is  
Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Goofy, Raunchy

Taste

On Tv, I Always Watch  
Cartoons, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A  
Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Animation
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To  
Pop, Punk, Reggae, Rap, Rock, Soul
When I Read, I Always Read  
Erotica, Fantasy, Romance, Supernatural, Science Fiction
My Idea Of Fun Is  
Hanging out with friends, singing at a karaoke bar

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?  
Boldness, Flirtatiousness, Good Looks, Humor, Intelligence, Power, Spontaneity, Wit
What Do You Look For?  
Looks first, but not necessarily the classic looks, only what appeals to me. Someone taller than me. And someone who wants me for me.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?  
Friend, Date, Domination, Committed
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