English, Other

45 Year old adult Dom living in Winston-Salem looking for female sub. I am employed and self sufficient. Please be the same. I like to travel, camp out, cook, bake and make crafts. My children are grown and on their own except for my furry child (cat). Other than travel, nature, and cooking, I enjoy History, 80's Music, Equal rights and Veterans Causes. Looking for someone I can have intelligent conversations with, and share my life with. As far as the BDSM Lifestyle goes, I am not into a 24/7 relationship. I am looking for someone who understands that I prefer to keep our bedroom activities in the bedroom, and perhaps in clubs or small groups of like minded people. I'd like to start as friends first, meeting in public places. I'd like to see if your personality is a smartassed as mine (or at least that you appreciate my sense of humor), and see if we gel personally before we discuss our BDSM limits. Please understand that like everyone, I have a deal breaker. My deal breaker is people that are prejudice against other people based on their race, color, sexual orientation, disability, culture or beliefs. I know I am asking a lot, but I have a lot to give and share. My promise to you is that I will always give you the same respect you show me and others.

Virgo

Big And Beautiful

5' 6 (1.68 m)

Brown

Caucasian

Divorced

Yes - Not At Home

Yes

Arms

Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Scarred, Strategically Placed Tattoo

Bald

Cat

No

University Degree

Full-time

Politics / Government

Caseworker

$30,000USD To $44,999USD

Alone, With Pet(s)

All Is Calm

No

Yes - Socially

Quiet One

Reserved, Shy, Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Flirtatious

Family, Dining, Photography, Exercising, Reading, Arts & Crafts, Sports, Learning, Music, Tv, Internet, Games, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Fishing / Hunting, Playing Cards, Camping, Volunteering, Computers

Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading A Book, Playing Video Games, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

Some Place public so we can see if we are compatible or not

I'll tell you my secrets when the time is right

Friendly, Cool, Goofy, A Flirt

Christian

Once A Week

Middle Of The Road

Get my MA and become a Counselor

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Slapstick, Raunchy, Sadistic

Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Sports

Comedy, Drama, Documentary, Family, Adult

Country, Rock, Metal, Pop, Gospel, Folk

Anthology, Auto-biography, Biography, Comic, Fiction, History, Home & Garden, Humor, Instructional, Music, Mystery, Nature, Reference, Satire, Sports, Erotica, Supernatural

Wit, Flirtatiousness, Spontaneity, Oddities, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence, Passiveness

I'm looking for someone like minded, Someone who can be both submissive in the bedroom, and my team mate in public.

Internet Buddy, Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed, Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Domination, Bondage