I look forward to your thoughts after you read this..............

"If I accept you as you are, I will make you worse; however if I treat you as though you are what you are capable of becoming, I help you become that." (~ Goethe). The world through your eyes and through mine will always be different. Distance between two hearts is not an obstacle, rather a beautiful reminder of just how true adoration can be. The essential difference between you and I, apart from your unique saunter and savoir-faire, is that I know, to the core of my being, that the only difference between "have" and "have-not, " is imagination. It's a long way of learning for both of us, trying to understand giving AND receiving pain as pleasurable. I invite you to express yourself on different levels. Only then we can see how good your likes and dislikes merge with mine.
Everybody stays always responsible for his or her own happiness. I believe everyone is the perfect reflection of who they are. We will both change in time and we will proceed our way to become the people we really are without trying to brag or flaunt. I hold this to

be the highest task for a bond between two people: that each protects the solitude of the other. Love consists in this, that two solitudes protect and touch and greet each other. Once the realization is accepted that even between the closest human beings infinite distances continue, a wonderful living side by side can grow, if they succeed in loving the distance between them which makes it possible for each to see the other whole against the sky.
Lust is fine but short living - learning has priority. I want to be with those who know secret things or else alone. We all can learn, even I learn every time again, a new trick, a refinement, a fetish or peeve. "He taught her how to live...she taught Him how to love". This is the miracle that happens every time to those who really love; the more they give, the more they possess. Show me your growing submissiveness while I'm teaching you.
Only a perfect independent person is capable to give herself away, not because she needs to but because she decides to. Physical pleasure is a sensual experience no different from pure seeing or the pure sensation with which a fine fruit fills the tongue; it is a great unending experience, which is given us, a knowing of the world, the fullness and the glory of all knowing. And not our acceptance of it is bad; the bad thing is that most people misuse and squander this experience and apply it as a stimulant at the tired spots of their lives and as distraction instead of a rallying toward exalted moments. I want to get a submissive where she freely decides to be.
The future enters into us, in order to transform itself in us, long before it happens. So... be aware of what you are dreaming for - because it all might come true!

Cancer

Average

5' 11 (1.8 m)

Brown

Caucasian

Single

Smile

Bald

Yes

Some University

Self-employed

Finance / Trading

CEO

With Roomate(s)

All Is Calm

No

Yes - Often

Class Clown

Anti-social, Comedic, Friendly, Observant, Outgoing

ask me

soaring & scuba

Friendly

Homeostasis

Clever

Documentaries, Instructional, Movies, Sports

Classical, Jazz, Latin, Rock, Soul

Business, Philosophy, Reference, Science Fiction

Great Skills, Intelligence, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

BRAINS

Oral Sex, Domination, Bondage