I have been bdsm-aware pretty much as long as I can remember. My experience to date has been limited to personal relationships; I've never been part of a bdsm scene, or any scene, really. I don't place much stock in scenes, labels, movements, or paradigms. But I am starting to explore the local scene a bit.

The checklist method of categorizing yourself, while pleasingly approachable, is lacking in finesse, so I will try to explain myself, although one thing you should know about me is that I hate explaining myself. I'm a musician, a geek, an amateur intellectual, an amateur viking, a changeling, an absent-minded professor. I am also a respectable middle-class guy, although I'm not entirely sure how that happened. I'm pretty down-to-earth for someone who uses the word 'paradigm' in an online profile. I can be very passionate but usually try not to. I like expensive cheese and other small indulgences.

I'm looking for play, and I'm perfectly open towards something steady, but I'm not especially looking to leap into anything serious anytime soon (which doesn't mean never - it just means not anytime soon). Erotically, I lean strongly towards the BD part of BDSM. I'm not looking for lifestyle bdsm, or being dominant outside of the sexual part of a relationship. That said, I don't think that the sexual part of a relationship necessarily stops in the bedroom, or kitchen floor, or wherever - I just don't have any need to express dominance socially, or to play a role other then Me. For me, bdsm is a game, a very serious game that runs deep within me, and I would like to win.

Maagd

Gemiddeld

6' 0 (1.83 m)

Groen

Blank

Single

Nee

Nee

Voeten

Geheime piercings, Zichtbare tatoeage

Bruin

Kat

Nee

VWO

Voltijd

Computers / Electronica

Web Developer

Alleen

Komen er soms vrienden langs

Nee

Ja - Vaak

Buitenstaander

Gereserveerd, Vriendelijk, Grappig, Donker, Raar

Lezen, Nieuwe Dingen Leren, Muziek, Spellen, Computers

Ik probeer graag nieuwe dingen, Drinken, Een boek lezen, Naar een concert gaan, Naar een museum gaan

Skydiving.

Cool

Spiritueel Maar Niet Religieus

To use my gifts well, find my place, leave things better than I found them, and try to understand that which can be understood. Also I like to make very loud noises occasionally.

Slim, Droge Humor / Sarcastisch, Obscuur

Ik ben een muzikant

Playing music is my main non-work related pursuit. I go see live music a lot, of all different kinds (or maybe just one kind - as Duke Ellington said once "There are just two kinds of music, good music and bad music.")I listen to NPR quite a lot, I play video games more than I should and I go out dancing a lot less than I should.

Intelligentie, Goed Uiterlijk, Humor, Empathie, Eigenaardigheden, Spontaniteit, Gevatheid, Bedachtzaamheid

Dominatie, Bondage, Date, Ik wil gewoon neuken