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I just got on this site so my profile is not complete, yet.



I am a bit older and I am very quiet and subtle about my relationships. There are alpha and beta males, and there are anti-alpha and anti-beta males. I am an anti-alpha male, I work with the establishment but I don't deal with authority - especially bully authority - very well.



You see, I like to be in charge but I don't force it. I set the scene with a great deal of empathy. I read my partner's needs, and please her desires while she pleases mine. In fact, it does turn me on enormously when I please her and - with empathy - she loves to please me without inhibitions.



I am exploring this whole scene. I am new to it - never had a relationship like this.



I have this urge of switching - especially in the oral dominating area. My best fantasy is the eye contact that we have when I am pleasing her orally. We look into each other’s eyes and we both know we belong to each other and lost in who is the master and who is the slave. We switch and I look down at her dreamy eyes while she tastes me. There is this excitement/calmness washing over both of us.



I would love to share my desires with a woman and fulfill her inner cavewoman needs. I am open for suggestions/development with a woman. Exploration is a shared thing, not something staged by some dom with no flexibility.

Capricorn

Stocky

5' 8 (1.73 m)

Brown

Caucasian

Single

No

Not Sure

Smile

Wouldn't Even Think About It

Bald

Cat

Yes

University Degree

Full-time

Research / Science / Engineering

(not at this time)

Alone, With Pet(s)

All Is Calm

No

Yes - Socially

Nerd

Shy

Arts & Crafts, Camping, Cars, Computers, Cooking, Fishing / Hunting, Games, Gardening, Learning, Movies, Music, Playing Cards, Reading, Tv

Going To A Casino, Playing Video Games, Relaxing, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things

I am open depending on who I am meeting, our goals, and what we would like to do. I have a lot of ideal scenarios.

(will share later)

Friendly, Obscure

Spiritual But Not Religious

Never

Very Conservative

(I have some interesting ideas that I will share later.)

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure

News, Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Instructional, Movies, Reality Shows, Re-runs

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Family, Animation, Horror, Thriller, Adult

Classical, Country, Rock

Ancient, Business, Fantasy, History, Instructional, Mathematics, Mystery, Nature, News, Philosophy, Political, Reference, Science, Science Fiction, Technical

I am open to a lot of things but I can't stand the inner city rap, gangster culture.

Boldness, Empathy, Humor, Intelligence, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness

I am not looking for looks, power or money. I am looking for extreme passion, empathy, spontaneity. I love to have a partner who thinks the way I think - to connect with the inner desires and will not hold back in putting them into play. The ultimate in sharing.

Intimate, Oral Sex, Domination, Secretive Sex, Vacation Fuck