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Currently I am seeking friends and information with like minded people, in time, Ultimately, I am a novice seeking a Single Dom or Domme, or possibly a Couple. BBW with huge heart, sensitive, intelligent, shy, quiet, yet sense of humor, quick witted, and talkative to a very few close friends. Interested in exploring a submissive situation with a more deep, very dark side that will take patience and a lot of exploration, communication and total trust to tap into.

I am willing to talk online and learn from those who are here, and appreciate their knowledge and friendship. Feel free to contact me if this intrigues you.

Virgo

Big And Beautiful

5' 9 (1.75 m)

Blue

Caucasian

Divorced

Yes - Sometimes At Home

No

Eyes

Pierced... But Only Ear(s)

Salt And Pepper

No pets

Yes

College Degree

Retired

Administrative / Management

Currently stable with my life.

$15,000USD To $29,999USD

With Kid(s)

Friends Come Over Occasionally

No

Yes - Socially

Quiet One

Reserved

Arts & Crafts, Camping, Cooking, Dining, Exercising, Family, Fishing / Hunting, Internet, Gardening, Movies, Music, Playing Cards, Reading, Religion / Spirituality, Travel

Hanging Out With Friends, Reading A Book, Relaxing

Meeting for dinner, going in being taken to the table. Talking candidly getting to know each other, with appropriate times, being told desires of pleasure for a later time, allowing the sexual desire and tension to grow. Allowing some spontaneous ending, finally feeling an arm around me as we leave. Being taken out of the restaurant, while desiring a kiss, being told sternly if and what desires Master would have, being given direction as to what I should do, him staring at my lips. If I please him with my response, kissing me, if not, with holding the kiss as punishment, telling me so.....ending in his or a fantasy of mine being fulfilled.

Oh this could be such a long list. Many things, taken further, finding limits. I guess the biggest thing is to have my lover set up for me to be taken and kept without my knowledge for a sexually gratifying vacation so to speak, where I am not in control of any of the time. A roller coaster of times starting with being unable to tell where I am being taken, though senses would be confused, with the trust being challenged, but reassured, I realize that it could be frightening and beyond limits I usually have. The time spent would be both rewarding with just a romantic period where we lay eating cherishing the time, yet others where I am his to do with as he pleases.

Friendly, Cool, Goofy

Christian

Once A Month

I Don't Like Politics

Show others old values can be positive, Enjoy my family and friends, Prove that time spent with those enjoying it is possible. Most importantly, Laughter and a well exercised mind is the best medicine.

Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Slapstick

News, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Instructional, Movies

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Family

Country, Dance, New age, Pop, Rock

Biography, Classic, Comic, Erotica, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Humor, Mystery, News, Poetry, Romance, Religious, Sports

Cooking together, spontaneity, travel, exploring, and somewhat a thrill seeker.

Boldness, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Intelligence, Power, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

Right now friendship, information and ideas, in time, ultimately I'm a Novice Looking for that Dom or Domme for light play, exploring more, looking to be taught what my limits are. It is more complicated than wanting spanked, or wanting cuffed, or confined. It is in no way about pain nor beatings, it is about intelligence, communication, intense sexual pleasure and most importantly trust.

I am a mature, established female who has spent 4 years finding myself and stabilizing my life. I have read alot, have friends involved in bdsm for life, and have aided in their equipment, and attempted to explore what it is I am looking for. I am very curious to finding my limits and excitement and I am interested in learning to be submissive. I know it takes dedication, and good communication skills. I hope to hear from you.

Situation I desire, is to be with someone who is going to build trust, communicate well. I have had a few light experiences with others new to the interest. My goal is to have a relationship build to where I have given total trust, and will do as my Master wishes, with only a couple of my current life situations being understood and honored, and would go through Master. I am bisexual, do enjoy times with both sexes, although I do not find sex with both at once satisfying for all. I am not someone who just wants a my ass slapped and pain involved, I want a deeper type involvement, that at times will take knowledge and trust and a strong person or couple to want to explore. I am a clean, non smoking, have a social drink rarely woman, mature and knowledgeable, just new to taking a step towards finding the right situation to explore my deep secret.

There are a few issues I will not give in on, and would not ever negotiate, and that is for health reasons totally, I have a few severe allergies, and health issues that are non-negotiable.

I am willing for this to be a trial situation, to see if it grows into more, and I am also realistic in that the right situation may never be a total 24/7 life expecially if with a couple.

I may sound like I want to be in control, NO absolutely not, I am just not wanting to waste times of those who are serious on here. I refuse to hide the truth of what I am looking for, so that there isn't disappointment. I am willing to consider this becoming a life for me. If this intrigues you, please feel free to contact me. I look forward to getting to know you.

Internet Buddy, Friend, Date, Intimate, Secretive Sex