I am a 47 yo white female submissive who considers herself an intelligent, independent, fun loving, adventurous person. I've been in the lifestyle just over 6 years and have a variety of experiences, but have found my niche in the realm of sensual submission. I adore bondage of any type and also enjoy a sensual flogging, cropping or single tail session. Basically anything that pleasantly arouses the senses I have found enjoyable. I'm not the slightest bit interested in pain or humiliation.

I've become a bit disillusioned with the lifestyle of late because I have come in contact with so many people who seem to be more into self-gratification and having an "excuse" to be their domineering, jackass selves, rather than being what I was taught and have experienced as true Doms. Domination is of course about the exertion of control,but it is not an excuse to be a jackass. A true Dom is someone who takes charge of a submissive and the responsibility of her health and well-being. Does a responsible owner misuse what belongs to Them? If they do, they don't have it very long.

I yearn for a very specific type of Dominant. One which I, unfortunately, have not come across recently. First and foremost, I need a Dominant who is highly intelligent. One who will challenge me mentally and enjoys a good stimulating conversation and is secure enough to even have His opinion challenged on topics in conversation.I need someone who craves to know how my mind works and what excites me mentally, thus understanding that mental stimulation far exceeds the physical. Someone who sees my need to stimulate my craving to sensual submission and bondage, yet is able to cater to my hopeless romantic side too.....even allowing me to lavish romantic gestures upon Him. If I can ever find a Dom capable of this mixture of activities, I will have found my true place.

Scorpio

Big And Beautiful

5' 6 (1.68 m)

Hazel

Caucasian

Never Married

No

No

Eyes

Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Strategically Placed Tattoo

Auburn / Red

No pets

No

University Degree

Full-time

Medical / Health

speech/language pathologist

Alone

All Is Calm

No

Yes - Socially

Quiet One

Observant, Friendly

Arts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Internet, Games, Dancing, Dining, Photography, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Computers

Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Playing Dress-up, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

Meeting at a coffee shop, chatting and if we found each other interesting, going for a walk in the area as we continued our conversation. If the interest level continued, going to a lively (not equivolent to loud) restaurant and talking over dinner. Finally ending in a comfy local bar for some more conversation and flirting if the mood struck us.

learning to do rope bondage and to be an erotic photographer...a really good one!!!

Friendly

Spiritual But Not Religious

Never

Liberal

Ultimately, my goal in life is to be happy and content with myself and my place in life and to find someone with whom I can share that

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Obscure

Movies

Action, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Thriller, Adult

Country, Rock, Pop, Jazz, Soul

Classic, Fiction

My idea of fun totally depends upon my mood, my environment and the people I am around. My hobbies include, but are not limited to: photography, visiting museums/galleries, collecting frogs/blown glass balls/pottery, reading, watching movies, listening to music or audiobooks, exploring new places, expanding my mind, good food/wine/intelligent conversation, bondage, sensual flogging/cropping/single tailing, wax play, being spontaneous and adventurous

Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

First and foremost I look for someone who is intelligent. Without that, there will be no interest for me. Beyond that, someone who is confident, has a great sense of humour, is capable of making you instantly at ease, is sensitive to others needs and feelings and is capable of spontaneity and adventurousness

Domination, Bondage, Date