I currently identify as a safe, sane, silly, stable, smart, sensual, slutty, submissive cis male. Let me know if you don't know what that means to me and I will try to clarify.

I continuously seek connections with other kinksters. Generally I prefer finding comfortable social & intimate companionship with select toppy cis gendered women.

My longer term hope & intent is finding energy from interactions, friendships, lovers, & partners that are with like-minded and like-acting people, especially kinksters. When with a companion and/or partner most everyday time tends toward easy-going domestic activity where I express my submissiveness in various service activities. During social time with them I enjoy being gentlemanly, charming, and generally enabling them to not be bothered by the muggles around us; a buffer for the unwanted, and a seasoning for the desired, hopefully making social interactions as pleasant as possible.
When play time happens, it is magical for me! Especially when scenes I am led into lean toward extreme perversity, sadism, debauchery, and intensity, it allows me to break free from everyday life. My bliss is to enter the sacred, intimate, and singularly special space of pure energy exchange with another person. To get to the moment where nothing else exists in my universe except me and the loving person with me; them inflicting pain upon me, providing pleasure to me, or allowing me to provide them with pleasure; if I'm REALLY lucky, some unthinkable combination of all these happens!

I'm not very good at "dating" so I try to practice a lot. Most times there are good dinners, movies, and walks to be had, at least once. Many fewer times foot rubs, cuddles, and other more intimate connections will happen with You. Frankly, I enjoy sitting home, watching a movie, rubbing Your feet or snuggling with You under a blanket, maybe being Your little spoon; intimacy and touch energizes me in primal ways.

Capricorn

A Few Extra Pounds

5' 11 (1.8 m)

Brown

Caucasian

Single

Yes - Not At Home

Smile

Secret Piercings, Strategically Placed Tattoo

Bald

No pets

College Degree

Full-time

Computers / Electronic

Alone

There Is No Noise

Brain

Friendly

Dining, Reading, Movies, Cooking

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, The Movies, Relaxing, Going To A Concert

Drinks & Dinner at Your favorite restaurant.

Friendly, Goofy

Dry / Sarcastic, Goofy, Obscure

Movies

Flirtatiousness, Power, Spontaneity, Empathy, Humor

My favorite people share some common qualities such as the following: They enjoys sex because it's fun & pleasurable & part of their Normal life, something from which they draw energy They are averse to dishonesty, bullshit, and/or drama and have the courage & honesty to call me and themselves on it They knows their needs and boundaries, and don't compromise them, and depend on and push me to define mine They are confident, intelligent, and secure in their own self They enjoy touching, kissing, and intimate contact FOOT RUBS! I'm ALL about giving foot rubs

Date, Intimate, Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Domination, Bondage, Strap On Sex