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sub male in ATX looking for Domme
Age 49 From Austin, Texas - Online - Over 2 weeks ago
Man (Sub) Seeking A Woman

Basic Information

First name  
Askme
I Can Speak  
English
I Would Describe Myself As  
Interested in meeting someone in the real world. Not interested in online only

From my earliest memories, I've been attracted to Dominant Women. I didn't have a name for it back then of course, and it wasn't even until well into college that I began to have a clue what BDSM was. For most of my twenties, I experimented, but I never found the right fit so to speak. Eventually, I settled down with someone that fulfilled enough of my submissive needs to make it work, though she was by no means a Dominant.

That ended not that long ago (though my sexual needs were not the reason at all), and I find myself once again taking tentative steps into the BDSM world, just not as shy and hopefully not as tentative this time around.

So I've been asked a few times what I'm looking for. I wish that was a simple answer! As I'm really just starting out again, I'm pretty open to trying new things. I'm definitely not ready for anything approaching a 24/7 or TPE scenario. I guess the easiest way to put it is that I'm looking for someone to learn and grow with. I do know that I'm not comfortable just 'doing a scene.' For me to play with someone, I need to have somewhat of a connection.

I'm open to the idea of being involved with a couple in the right situation. I just don't want to feel like nothing more than a plaything.

I'm not particularly modest. I've only played publicly a few times in the past. I'm interested in it, but like I said above, I need a connection.

For my vanilla interests, I love hiking and camping. I'm a total dog person (I like cats too, just haven't had one in a long, long time). I enjoy wood working (that certainly could be a non-vanilla interest too!). I'm pretty handy around the house and cars. I enjoy Sci-fi books and movies. I recently got back into cycling.

I love to cook and bake! One of my joys is planning a big, multi-course dinner and executing it. My specialties really are deserts, ask me about my famous French Silk Pie!
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Libra

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is  
Average
My Height Is  
6' 0 (1.83 m)
My Eyes Are  
Blue
My Ethnicity Is  
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is  
Divorced
I Have Kids  
Yes - Sometimes At Home
I Want Kids  
Not Sure
My Best Feature Is  
Smile
Body Art  
Other
My Hair Is  
Blonde
I Have One Or More Of These  
Dog
Willing To Relocate  
No

Status

My Education Level Is  
University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is  
Self-employed
My Speciality Is  
Contruction / Craftsman
My Job Title Is  
Owner
I Make This Much In A Year  
$100,000USD To $150,000USD
I Live  
Alone, With Kid(s), With Pet(s)
At Home  
It Gets A Bit Crazy Sometimes
I'm A Smoker  
No
I Drink  
Yes - Socially

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A  
Nerd
My Social Behavior Is  
Friendly, Comedic, Party Starter, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are  
Exercising, Reading, Sports, Movies, Games, Dancing, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Cars, Playing Cards, Camping, Gambling, Computers
My Idea Of A Great Time Is  
Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Reading A Book, Going To A Casino, Playing Video Games, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be  
Meeting at something information, like a coffee shop, to see if we click
I've Always Wanted To Try  
A very long list of things!
My Friends Describe Me As Being  
Friendly, Goofy

Views

My Religion Is  
Christian
I Attend Services  
Once A Week
My Political Views Are  
Middle Of The Road
My Goal In Life Is  
To be someone my kids love and are proud of.
My Kind Of Humor Is  
Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly

Taste

On Tv, I Always Watch  
Cartoons, Situation Comedies, Movies, Sports
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A  
Action, Science Fiction, Comedy
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To  
Country, Rock, Metal, Electronic, Pop, Classical
When I Read, I Always Read  
Fantasy, Fiction, Instructional, Science Fiction
My Idea Of Fun Is  
I like to be outdoors, going hiking, camping, etc., but I also enjoy refined things like going to a nice dinner and the symphony

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?  
Wit, Boldness, Sensitivity, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence
What Do You Look For?  
I tend to notice how someone treats the people around them more than anything
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?  
Friend, Date, Intimate, Other, Domination, Strap On Sex
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