Don

English

Welcome, and thanks for stopping by!

Note! Being able to converse orally is very important.
I seek a lover, friend, partner, significant other, someone to share life with, care for, and learn to love. I highly value intelligence and independent thought in a partner.

I am also a dom. (Surprise!) If I am fortunate enough to find someone who wants me as their master, then I may also be that. I have been in the past. I exercise. I am quite controlling, although not domineering (and yes, there is a difference). The 50s household and lifestyle BDSM items fit well.

I have, for my age, a very active libido. Giving my partner pleasure pleases me no end. A helplessly orgasming woman is incredibly erotic.

Regarding limits, I honor them, of course. Limits need to be a key part of our pre-meeting conversations in order to determine whether or not ours are compatible.

So long as you are legal, age per se is not an issue -- but your mind, your face, and your body all need to attract me at least somewhat. I am good with the grow old together thing -- but the initial attraction needs to be there, or I cannot make that initial bond that makes the growing old together a good thing rather than painful. That means visuals (x-rated not necessary) and meetings early on. That goes both ways, of course -- What is good for the goose ...

Other deal breakers include STDs, dishonesty, obesity, illegal drug use or excessive drinking, at home and smoking anywhere other than outside. I do have a cat allergy, although that could be addressed over time if need be.

If you have gotten this far without bailing, thanks for the effort! -- and I very much look forward to chatting with you! I do contact women here I think might click with me. But if you have read to here and would like to chat, please do email me here. I am friendly.

No cyber or phone sex. Cams are great (and I have a good one) -- but for seeing the other person while chatting, not for remote play. Emails first, then IM, then phone, then meet. No particular schedule, but days or weeks, not months or years.
My Ideal Person I seek a woman to become my significant other *and* submit to me as a 24/7 submissive or consensual slave for a monogamous LTR. If you do not see yourself in such a role, we are not a fit.

Aries

Fit

5' 8 (1.73 m)

Blue

Caucasian

Single

No

No

Butt

Wouldn't Even Think About It

Salt And Pepper

No pets

No

University Degree

Self-employed

Education / Academic

copy editor

$45,000USD To $59,999USD

Alone

All Is Calm

No

Yes - Socially

Brain

Friendly, Outgoing

Dining, Exercising, Reading, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Cooking, Computers

Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading A Book, Tv, Going To A Museum

A nice meal at a quiet restaurant where we could talk.

Or, if we both decide to go for it, a serious BDSM session.

Inverted suspension

Friendly, Cool

Atheist

Never

I Don't Like Politics

Avoid people who care about politics

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Obscure

I Don't Like Tv

Action, Science Fiction

Classical, Jazz, Latin

Satire, Science, Science Fiction

Streaming TV or DVDs (without commercials) and movies; canoeing; talking with my partner; hiking; reading SF

Wit, Flirtatiousness, Spontaneity, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence, Passiveness

attractive face, slender waist, not-huge thighs & butt

Date, Intimate, Committed, Oral Sex, Domination, Bondage