I am a beginner looking for a D/s relationship. I have family and career responsibilities and can't do a 24/7 situation. My wife and I see other people openly (as regards each other) but discreetly (as regards the rest of the world). We keep the household together for our kids. I am professionally successful and comfortable in any social setting but am also down to earth and perfectly at home playing pool in a dive bar or crawling out of the river with my kayak. I like outdoor sports and live music, and I'm all for a bit of dating (some fine dining, perhaps?) to figure out if we click. I have had successful previous relationships in terms of being able to devote sufficient time to make it meaningful and great. I am not just looking for a hookup; I want to explore D/s in a situation of intimacy and trust. I live in Alexandria and work in DC. Would love to chat.

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