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Why am I on this site? The name seems to be appropriate, but there are so many women on here who aren’t into bondage at all, that I have to question whether or not I belong. For starters, when I was about second/third grade age (way too young to have any clue at all about sex), I would occasionally see a woman captured by the bad guys on TV (e.g. Lois Lane on Superman and Jane in the old B&W Tarzan movies), which would usually involve her being tied up. When that would happen, yours truly would become aroused (yes, way too young to climax, but definitely able to be aroused). Now I had no idea at that age what that was all about. I just know that it felt good. Of course, I would get the same response reading about women being tied up in stories or seeing them tied up in comic books, etc. It’s all very innocent stuff. No latent hostility towards women. It’s just the way my body reacted to that stimulus, and (of course) it’s never gone away. Now, I have at least one sexual soul mate in this country, a gal who refers to herself as SouthBoundBelle and who has posted some stories about herself on an appropriate internet self-bondage forum. She discovered an affinity for wanting to be tied up in much the same way that I discovered my affinity for enjoying seeing an attractive DID (damsel in distress). Again, for her, it was all very innocent stuff. She saw pictures of women tied up in comic books and on the covers of detective magazines as an adolescent, and she must have fantasized about being a damsel in distress. Not having a partner to tie her up, she began practicing self-bondage, eventually having her first climax (by accident) during one of her sessions, and she’s never looked back. She very much enjoys dressing up for her role playing, and has enjoyed a very rewarding sexual life as a result. So, I have to believe that there are a number of other women out there like SouthBoundBelle, who aren’t into pain, consented mistreatment, group sex, or submission. They are just normal women and mothers who happen to enjoy the fantasy of playing the DID role, and get off on dressing up and being tied up and teased, with the aid of a loving partner and some strategically placed vibrating toys. If you are anything like this, you would be my sexual soul mate also.**************** ************************************************** Now that we’ve addressed where I’m coming from in relation to this site, I would like to add that I was married for 30+ years to a very attractive (inside and out) woman who passed away in 2013. Now, she really wasn’t turned on by playing the DID role, although she did allow me to tie her up whenever I wanted to. So guess what? You don’t have any standards that you have to live up to. I’m simply looking for a quality woman with whom to enjoy the rest of my life, but if I should be so lucky, I’d like it to be with someone like SouthBoundBelle, so that we could be on the same page in the bedroom and enjoy a very stimulating and enjoyable sex life, if that’s not asking for too much. My profile does a pretty good job of detailing my tastes outside of the bedroom, so if you think that we might have a connection, by all means get back to me and let’s explore further. Not really looking for any young kids. I’d love to find an attractive older woman who takes a little pride in her appearance and would like to have one last great relationship. It would also be nice if you feel that mental exercise and physical exercise are equally important. The scenic pictures are of Lake Tahoe from the top of Mount Rose, taken on a 10 mile round trip hike with a 1900 foot elevation change, so yes, I’m in very good shape. Anything else that you’d like to know, feel free to ask. I'm definitely in a position where I can relocate for the right woman, but I HAVE TO KNOW THAT IT IS GOING TO BE RIGHT FOR YOU! Look forward to hearing from anyone who’d like to have it all, as it were.

Scorpio

Average

5' 11 (1.8 m)

Brown

Caucasian

Widowed

Yes - Not At Home

No

Hair

Wouldn't Even Think About It

Salt And Pepper

No pets

Yes

College Degree

Part-time

Hospitality / Travel

Semi-retired

$30,000USD To $44,999USD

Alone

All Is Calm

No

Yes - Socially

Brain

Friendly

Family, Sports, Music, Movies, Travel, Playing Cards

Trying New Things, The Movies

Dinner and getting acquainted.

Gliding (sail plane)

Friendly

Christian

Never

Libertarian

Enjoy to the max.

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Slapstick

News, Documentaries, Situation Comedies, Movies, Sports

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Drama, Documentary, Thriller

Country, Rock, Classical, Folk

Business, Fiction, History, Humor, Science Fiction, Erotica

Playing bridge, playing golf, sailing, body surfing, snorkeling, visiting national parks, horseback (trail) riding.

Wit, Sensitivity, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

A quality woman who wants a great LTR.

Intimate, Committed