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STOP !!!! DO NOT MESSAGE ME UNLESS WE ARE COMPATIBLE !!!

I am not looking for just sex, play, role play and I am not interested in poly households. If you are not from the Barrie area or within an hour's drive, do not message me unless you are willing to come here to meet me. This means you will be paying for a hotel which I will not go to the first, or even second time we meet.

I am looking for my LIFE. This means a full time totally committed long term monogamous relationship. I am not driving right now so you will have to come to me. If you are not willing, or able, to invest the time to build this type of relationship, in person, not on the computer, please don't waste my time or yours. Thank you for your respect and consideration.

I am quiet and shy at first but playfully mischievous once I feel comfortable and I like cookies :-) This barbarian is ever amazed, innocent but intelligent. Want to know more? Get to know me.

When I yank on my leash, what will you do?
A) Allow it to go slack
B) Yank back as hard as you can
C) Hold it patiently firm
D) Get mad and storm off

I miss my collar & I miss that relationship even more. I can't be a partial or part time slave. I started looking into BDSM and found I do not fit into any of the sub categories The closest I come is a sensualist. I care nothing about your money and less about your portfolio. If you can support yourself, that's all that matters to me.

Many of you will answer something other than C to the question above. One may even say if I was Gorean, I would never yank my chain. You may jump to the power side of things instead of looking at the possibilities and weighing the options. The first question you should have thought of is. "why did she yank her chain?" That leads to another thought and that is, do you have the patience or knowledge required to own a human being. I did not write what follows, but it is perfect to me. Gorean Masters are extremely patient.

Any good wench, will challenge a man. She will test her boundaries, push and nudge. Sometimes she is obvious, sometimes she is subtle. But she is ALWAYS tugging at her leash. She needs to feel the resistance, to know that the leash is held, because it makes her feel safe. If you let the leash go slack, she will slip away. If you yank it too hard, she will choke and die. It is a simple, constant tension, that defines a man as a Master. It is not empty vapid threats and stomping off like a child. It is the passing of a look of disapproval, a subtle graceful thing that a Master does as an act of love. When she yanks hard, he does not yank back as hard as he can. If anything he shows her in his calm grasp that he is merciful and could do worse. If he punishes her, it is not out of revenge, but out of love. Desire not to see her suffering, but her learning. To comfort her with his strength, within her boundaries. That she will feel safe and become the caregiver she is bred to be.

Nothing is more important to a Gorean than that which is perishable. That includes his slave. Secondly is beauty. A Gorean slave does not lie but provides absolute obedience and exquisite beauty to her Master. Loyalty is never in question, respect, adoration, and an ever increasing desire to please. This is not just in the bedroom but in life. It isn't a part time relationship or one taken for granted. You must be willing to put your entire self into something if you expect me to put my entire self into your hands. You also have to be strong enough to control me and that doesn't mean physically. Men love feisty and intelligent slaves. It provides them with a challenge and you will get that with me.

Demonstrate to me your honour, strength, knowledge and patience, and I will follow you faithfully to the City of Dust. If you break me, I am not mend able If you lose me, I am not replaceable. I may be nothing more than a little slave girl, no different than a bosk, but once I am your slave girl, you will have me for life.

Virgo

Average

5' 2 (1.57 m)

Brown

Caucasian

Divorced

Yes - Not At Home

No

Eyes

Wouldn't Even Think About It

Brown

No pets

Yes

College Degree

Self-employed

Other

Chief Operations Officer

With Kid(s)

All Is Calm

Yes - Trying To Quit

No

Outcast

Friendly, Observant, Reserved

Arts & Crafts, Camping, Cars, Computers, Dancing, Family, Internet, Games, Learning, Movies, Music, Playing Cards, Reading, Theater

Going Shopping, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Playing Dress-up, Playing Video Games, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things

public meeting, perhaps coffee

being tied up and played with

Friendly, Troublemaker, Someone They Want To Be, Cool, Perfect, Goofy

Not Religious

Never

I Don't Like Politics

I have big dreams :-)

Clever, Friendly, Goofy

I Don't Like Tv

Action, Comedy, Romance

Blues, Classical, Country, Folk, Jazz, Pop, Punk, Rock, Soul

Ancient, Comic, Fantasy, Fiction, Health, History, Home & Garden, Humor, Mathematics, Mystery, Nature, News, Poetry, Romance, Supernatural, Reference, Science

mischief

Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Intelligence, Power, Thoughtfullness, Wit

A long term relationship with my Master in total power exchange

Committed, Domination, Bondage