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So it is time for a serious update and please make sure you read all the way through before making contact.

Well I am pretty much a closed book at the moment until I get to know someone and then watch out! I like to share my thoughts and feelings with people that I can trust with, which are very few and far between at the moment, so don't be scared off if I don't share them with you on initial conversations!
I am far too polite for my own good, it is just how I was brought up, by good parents, which some people associate with submissive behaviours, but far from it do I have a submissive nature! I definitely have a dominant, nasty, sadistic streak to me! I know what I want and have experience in that side. I say I have experience and I don't say that I am experienced as they are 2 very different things! I don't believe anyone is experienced as each and every experience is different for everyone single person and it is something that grows in a friendship or relationship.
I turned 40 a couple of years ago, I have enjoyed my life until this point, but feel there is more out there to experience and am looking for the right person to experience that with. I am looking for my equal but at opposite ends of the spectrum, someone whom I can care for and will provide the same back, someone with an open mind and will show respect. Someone who has that feeling of want and still wants more. Someone who is a lady but is a complete slut at the same time. Someone who is willing to accept me for whom I am and will also accept my punishment when it is deserved.
I am not asking for a lot or maybe I am..... That person has not been found yet, so maybe that person is not out there! Who knows? You? Then persuade me that you are that person and I look forward to the challenge.

Sagittarius

A Few Extra Pounds

6' 1 (1.85 m)

Blue

Caucasian

Single

No

Not Sure

Smile

Strategically Placed Tattoo

Salt And Pepper

No pets

No

University Degree

Full-time

Other

I work which is enough

$75,000USD To $99,999USD

Alone

Friends Come Over Occasionally

Yes - Trying To Quit

Yes - Socially

Quiet One

Reserved, Observant, Friendly, Party Starter

Dining, Photography, Learning, Movies, Travel, Cars

Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Clubbing / Bars

I am a strong believer of building trust with someone, so a first date/meeting would be in a public place for a drink, maybe a coffee shop or a pub. This would allow us to chat and if all goes well, then maybe dinner. And let's see where things go from there!

There are many things that I want to try. At the moment, for me to know and for you to find out :-)

Friendly, Raunchy, Obscure

Agnostic

Never

Conservative

To find someone who has similar interests and settle down. Yes I am quite dedicated to my work and do work long hours. But I want to have that special person in my life that we can share both kinky and normal aspects of our life.

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Sadistic

News, Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Sports

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Family, Animation

Rock, Metal, Blues, Jazz, Latin, Ambient, Punk

News, Business, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Humor, Mystery, Science Fiction, Romance, Erotica

Now you are going to have to ask about this one......

Wit, Spontaneity, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Humor, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

I am looking for a female that is intelligent, knows what she wants out of life and has an innate need to be controlled in most aspects of her life but at the same time has a voice of her own. Very contradictory I know, but that gives me a whole heap of options

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed, Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Domination, Bondage