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I think i have finally figured out i am a BiPoler sub…no i am not really BiPoler its just a joke, i just seem to go back and for a lot, one minute my dominate side is out when i am being told to do something i don't want to do and the next minute i am wanting to take care of someone and do as they ask, so i guess you could call me a switch. I am a bratty submissive with a couple of handfuls of Dominance and a dash of masochist. I Was raised by my mom who raised me to be a very strong independent women, but at the same time i am always being told what to do and how to do it and i always feel like i have to just give in/submit and i am just over it. I don't mind taking care of people and/or making sure the people i care about have what they need, and i definitely don't mind being told what to do in the bedroom or at a play party ;-). Other then that i prefer to have control of my own life and what i do and how i do it. I would consider myself for the most part a monogamist person but am open to poly as long as i am the "main girl" in the relationship but in order for me to want to be in a relationship with you i want to get to know you for a while first and not just jump right in to something or even talk about relationships for a while. I know what i am looking for in a partner and will not settle for just anyone. First impressions mean a lot to me and if you don't make a good first impression we will not get along. If you are above the age range that i have listed below, then don't expect me to become your sub, depending on how we get along i might play with you but don't expect any vaginal or oral stuff to happen because it won't. I am physically disabled or as i prefer "physically limited", i am not in a wheel chair and can walk and do many things just like everyone else, i just have limitations that need to be modified.

I love the outdoors, hiking, swimming, rockies and broncos games,BBQ's.
I also love things like photography,Museums,movies,reading,spending time when i can with my friends and family. I am glad i found this site so that i can feel free to discuss these interests i have with out someone thinking i am crazy for wanting to explore it.

Looking for:
I am looking for a D/s LTR relationship first and foremost and also open to poly, but while I am waiting for that day to come I am open to playing, exploring and learning.
I am looking for a Dom that knows what he is doing or somewhat knows what he is doing, has at least some experience under his belt and knows how to treat a sub with out making her feel worthless or mistreated with consent.
I am looking for a Dom who is both gentle but can also show me the "more exciting" not so gentle parts of this lifestyle that i want to explore.
I have a disability and need someone who will except that and can adjust things to meet my needs...i guess i would probably fall under the category of "spinal injury". But the spinal injury is not the only part of my disability. We can talk about that more as we get to know each other.
I would prefer someone between the ages of 28 and 43.

Not looking for:
A Dom who wants a Slave rather then a sub.
A Dom who is in to extreme stuff like hooks and piercings and complete control of the life of the sub.
If you have a picture of your man hood as your main picture, that does not tell me your a real man, that tells me your saying "hey I'm just horny lets fuck." That is not what i am looking for.


SOME OF MY HARD LIMITS: Latex ( i am allergic ) Needles, Cutting, Breath play, Permanent Marks, Anal Rimming, Face Sitting, Water Sports "urine" receiving, Degradation and Humiliation, Playing with anyone who has been drinking or doing drugs.

SOME OF MY SOFT LIMITS: Bitting, Being Restrained, Electro Play, Fire Cupping, Snuggling, Spanking, Corsets, Water (except submerging), Scratching, Hair pulling/grabbing.

Pisces

A Few Extra Pounds

4' 11 (1.5 m)

Blue

Caucasian

Single

No

Yes

Eyes

Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Visible Tattoo

Brown

Dog

No

College Degree

Self-employed

Other

Massage Therapist

Alone, With Pet(s)

All Is Calm

Yes - But Non Tobacco

Yes - Socially

Quiet One

Flirtatious, Friendly, Observant, Reserved, Shy

Arts & Crafts, Camping, Cars, Computers, Cooking, Dining, Family, Fishing / Hunting, Internet, Games, Gardening, Learning, Movies, Music, Photography, Playing Cards, Reading, Sports, Theater, Travel, Tv, Volunteering

Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Playing Video Games, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Sleeping, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things, Tv

Meeting at a munch or for coffee or lunch.

Friendly

Spiritual But Not Religious

I Don't Like Politics

Dry / Sarcastic

Dramas, Movies, Sports, Re-runs

Action, Science Fiction, Romance, Drama, Family, Horror, Thriller

Country, Pop, Rock

Fantasy, Fiction, History, Music, Mystery, Nature, Romance, Supernatural

driving through the mountains looking at all the scenery, going to the museum, concerts.

Boldness, Empathy, Flirtatiousness, Good Looks, Great Skills, Humor, Intelligence, Money, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

I am looking for a Dom that knows what he is doing, has experience under his belt and knows how to treat a sub with out making her feel worthless or abused.
I am looking for a Dom who is both gentle but can also show me the "more exciting" not so gentle parts of BDSM that i want to explore.
I am looking for a Long Term Relationship and hoping to find a Dom who wants the same.
I have a disability and need someone who will except that and can adjust things to meet my needs...i guess i would probably fall under the category of "spinal injury".
I would prefer someone between the ages of 28 and 40.
Not looking for:
A Dom who wants a Slave rather then a sub.
A Dom who in is to extreme stuff like hooks and piercings and complete control of the life of the sub.

Friend, Intimate, Committed, Marriage, Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Domination, Bondage