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Hi. My name is Kathandra. 5'4, long red hair, a little padding in the right places with hazel green eyes.
I am a published author of a D&S novel, and currently work as both a writer and work as a phone operator for a counseling agency. I am hoping to save up enough money for college to study languages and dispute resolution. I would love to be a mediator and help people resolve problems.
As long as I can remember I have been interested in spanking, physical punishment, and the ideas of being controlled and feeling at peace under a dominant person. When I was a teenage and to this day I have been writing spanking stories on news groups. I worked as a submissive for a club for one summer. I am very knowledgeable about the community from a virtual stand point.
Now I have decided that I would like to try having an in person relationship with someone who feels the same way I do but from the tops perspective. I am only looking for woman and am most interested in the domestic aspects of BDSM. My favorite fantasies include my being a daughter or a ward or a chamber maid who has to be punished for my own good.
I am hoping to meet a female dom in person in my area with similar fantasies who could play on a regular basis. I am open to a variety of relationships: from someone who enjoys playing with me and with who I can be friends, to something that grows into a romance, and anything in between. :) For someone who enjoys playing with me. Above all someone who sees my submissive side and me not as something to be taken advantage of, but rather as a gift.

Libra

Curvy

5' 4 (1.63 m)

Green

Caucasian

Single

No

Yes

Chest

Pierced... But Only Ear(s)

Auburn / Red

Exotic Animal, Reptile

No

Some College

Part-time

Art / Music / Literature

Author

Less Than $14,999USD

With Roomate(s)

All Is Calm

Yes - Trying To Quit

No

Brain

Boisterous, Comedic, Friendly, Shy

Arts & Crafts, Computers, Family, Internet, Games, Learning, Movies, Music, Playing Cards, Reading, Theater, Tv

Hanging Out With Friends, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Playing Dress-up, Playing Video Games, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Sleeping, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things, Tv

A dinner at a niceish restaurant where we can talk and get to know each other.

Parachuting!

Friendly, Cool, Obscure, Goofy, A Flirt

Spiritual But Not Religious

Never

Very Liberal

Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure, Sadistic, Slapstick, Raunchy

Cartoons, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Adult

Ambient, Classical, Electronic, Folk, New age, Pop

Ancient, Classic, Comic, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Humor, Philosophy, Poetry, Science Fiction, I'm An Author

Being in the care of a controlled and affectionate dom.

Boldness, Empathy, Flirtatiousness, Good Looks, Great Skills, Humor, Intelligence, Oddities, Power, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

I really take people one personality at a time, and see if I click for them. I don't and huge preferences other than that their be respect.

Date, Domination, Bondage