John

English

I'm a 53 year old sub who has quite a bit of experience in the BDSM lifestyle. While I maintain manly exterior and habits (Work in construction, watch football, etc...) I have a sissy, painslut side to me that needs attention from a Domme. Looking for someone local to interact with. A Goddess who knows what She wants, yet cares about the needs of her subject.

A little bit ore about me:
It all started when I was 26. A girlfriend asked me if she could put clothespins on my nipples. I agreed and soon entered into the world that is BDSM. From there she indulged me in some CBT (strategically placed rubber bands), light bondage, wax play, and the use of her crop. She also had a rose branch that she would use on me from time to time. Needless to say I was hooked. I was attracted not only to this pursuit of my side that liked to be tormented, but to the way she knew exactly what she wanted to do. I may not have understood that I was a submissive yet, but I liked where it was all going.
Unfortunately, we parted ways and I was left for some time without a partner to play with. I remained attracted to dominant women, but was unsure how to go about pursuing them. I spent years doing self-bondage and torment, perfecting elaborate acts of masturbation that brought me to that fine line between pleasure and pain. The fact that I was alone though though was not lost on me, however, and I soon set about finding a Mistress to guide and train me.
Hello Internet! I found "what I was looking for" easily enough, and was soon a subject of online domination. I trained with two distinctly different Mistresses and look back fondly on those times. But it was time to meet someone in person. Then I met "Her". It started as an online, long distance relationship, us being several states away from each other. But we eventually agreed to meet in person. I flew to Her and finally experienced what is was like to be really dominated in person. This relationship lasted a few years. We remained in our home states, but would pick cities to explore, meet up, and have a wonderful time hanging out with plenty of discreet fun back at the hotel room. We went to Dallas, LA, Portland, and San Francisco to discover the unique scenes that each city had to offer. Our relationship ended amicably after a couple of years, we both just kinda moved on.
I had a couple dominant girlfriends after that, but they weren't really into it like I was. And for the most part, I played on my own. I had a little success getting into the local scene. But found myself wanting something more involved and substantial. I turned to the Internet again and well, here I am.

Full disclosure: I am currently in a D/s relationship. We've been online now for over a year now but have yet to meet. She fulfills many of my needs... but I am still looking for that in person kind of contact that makes all the difference in the world. I am also continually striving to become a better sub, and interacting with additional dominants seems key to that.
That said. I'd really like to connect with someone to continue my exploration into this world. Preferably in person. But I'm pretty good at the long distance thing too. I have a variety of toys and am quite creative in their use. But I try and not play alone anymore unless someone is telling me what to do.
Well there you have it. "A little bit about me". If you're interested, please don't hesitate to message me and we'll see if we can work something out.

Capricorn

A Few Extra Pounds

5' 10 (1.78 m)

Hazel

Caucasian

Single

No

Not Sure

Butt

Visible Tattoo

Brown

No pets

No

Some College

Self-employed

Contruction / Craftsman

Alone

There Is No Noise

No