James

English

Pansexual
Top Leaning Switch
Sensual Hedonist
Solo Poly Leaning
Non-Monogamous Ethical Slut

I have been actively pursuing the alternative lifestyle for this past year. I enjoy attending educational workshops and socials on kink. I love participating in the community when, where, and in the capacities I am able to. I am grateful to this wonderful kinky community for the warmth and welcome I have felt here as well as the friendships I have made in this past year on my journey in KINK.

FYI - I am in the middle of relationship drama with my wife currently. She has recently moved out and I have filed for divorce. Please feel free to ask for specific details and I will fill you in. I understand if this an issue for play with anyone and I want to be upfront about it.

I am open to interacting with most folks I meet. If we haven't met yet, try stopping by any of the Anchorage Munches; there is a good chance I may be there. I love getting to meet and get to know new people in public first in these types of Kink friendly group settings.

My preference is female presenting, but I enjoy intimate contact with all parts of the gender spectrum. Good hygiene is a must for myself. My preference is to use barriers for protection for all sexual activities by default. However, I do enjoy giving unprotected oral sex to folks with vaginas if we have negotiated according.

Condoms, Birth Control, and Recent STI test results required for any type of intercourse.

Overall, I enjoy both giving and receiving oral sex and body worship with my mouth, hands, and any other toys as we may negotiate regardless of gender.

Getting to know others better, making out, using toys on others for their pleasure, and mutual stimulation are some of my favorite activities. I enjoy topping electrical stimulation (neon wand), light impact, light bondage, sensation play and sensual sexual massage; I feel fairly confident and competent in my capabilities in these areas. I also enjoy practicing both topping and bottoming for impact, bondage, role play scenes, and other kinky activities.

I am open to discussing most activities and may also become open to trying new activities if I feel that I have enough background information on the activity and trust in the play partner's experience in the activity I am having a scene with. A great way to improve your chances of play with me are attending play parties where I have seen you interact and play with others I know. Referrals from trusted prior play partners I have seen others play with go a long way with me.

If you are interested in playing together, please let me know. I tend to be a little shy in asking. I am not worried about being rejected if anyone is not interested; I just want make sure that I don’t make anyone uncomfortable.

I looking forward to meeting, connecting, and sharing myself with other kinky folks who are interested. I really appreciate when others share their kinks and vulnerabilities with me as well.

Virgo

A Few Extra Pounds

5' 8 (1.73 m)

Hazel

Caucasian

Separated

Yes - Not At Home

No

Smile

Other

Salt And Pepper

No

College Degree

Full-time

Computers / Electronic

Special Credits Process Development Mgr

$75,000USD To $99,999USD

Alone

Friends Come Over Occasionally

No

Yes - Socially

Quiet One

Reserved, Friendly

Camping

Hanging Out With Friends

Coffee

TBD

Friendly

Not Religious

Never

Liberal

To be better each day than yesterday.

Campy, Friendly, Goofy, Raunchy

News, Documentaries, Dramas, Instructional

Drama, Documentary

Country, Rock, Pop, Dance, Folk

News, Biography, Business, Computers, Health, History, Humor, Instructional, Nature, Technical, Erotica

PLAY

Wit, Flirtatiousness, Spontaneity, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

Integrity

Friend, Date, Intimate, Other, Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Bondage, Group Sex, Just Wanna Fuck, Strap On Sex, Vacation Fuck