Robert

English

I'm an idealist and romantic at heart. In an afternoon light, surrounded by art or music, I can’t help but thinking what a glorious gift life is - to be able to live amidst the music, poetry, courage and idealism of the human spirit, amidst hills, trees, rivers, oceans and galaxies of stars and planets with the passion and good health to enjoy it all.

'Educated, older, healthy man with sense of humor seeks BDSM play, conversation, friendship.’
That is true. Our play can be just that if that is what you seek.

But ultimately I’m looking for romance and long term relationship/mate. In addition to her use of pain to discipline and train me sexually.
I’m looking for a woman with the capacity for: warmth, affection, tenderness, passion and a sense of humor, one who is willing to be happy, better yet one with bursts of joi de vivre, Someone who lives by the golden rule. I’m looking for emotional intimacy and intellectual companionship.
I imagine that we all carry the longing for emotional intimacy. It often sits quietly in the back of our mind but we can feel it sometimes, an ache in the heart, a longing, … There is intertwined with that ache the ache for the passion of sex, for intense engagement, that dance of two souls in the heat of passion ... Domination and submission can create that intimacy, something deeper than surface sex (although nothing wrong with that). It is one of its draws for me. What do you think?
Ideally I'm looking for an emotional and romantic connection with a woman who is my equal. In sexuality, I'm looking for a woman who will train and discipline me to be sexually subservient to her and use me for her pleasure. I can switch if she wants that at times; I’ve experienced both roles. Her arousal and pleasure is what turns me on.
By now you may have guessed that I enjoy writing, reading, conversations about a film, a play, a poem, a novel, art, freedom, the human psyche, the cosmos. Enough about me... I'd like to get to know you if any of this catches your interest.

Virgo

Average

6' 1 (1.85 m)

Blue

European

Single

No

No

Grey

No pets

Yes

University Degree

Self-employed

Art / Music / Literature

Writer

$45,000USD To $59,999USD

Alone

All Is Calm

No

Yes - Socially

Observant

Religion / Spirituality, Exercising, Reading, Music, Tv, Movies, Dancing, Theater

The chemistry is what's important as we get a sense of each other in person - it's not so much the place or activity. It could be lunch or coffee; weather permitting a walk outside...

Travel is on my horizon.

Friendly

Spiritual But Not Religious

Libertarian

Currently 1. Finish a play that I'm currently working on. 2. Redecorate/fix up my home. 3. Find a play partner and/or preferably a mate/ long term relationship. 4. Travel 5. Resume teaching in some form.

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly

Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies

Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama

Rock, Classical, Jazz, Latin, New age, Ambient

News, Ancient, Classic, Fiction, History, Philosophy, Political, Poetry, Religious, Satire, Science, Science Fiction, Romance

See my introduction...

Wit, Sensitivity, Empathy, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

'Educated, older, healthy man with sense of humor seeks BDSM play, conversation, friendship.’
That is true. Our play can be just that if that is what you seek.

But ultimately I’m looking for romance and long term relationship/mate. In addition to her use of pain to discipline and train me sexually.
I’m looking for a woman with the capacity for: warmth, affection, tenderness, passion and a sense of humor, one who is willing to be happy, better yet one with bursts of joi de vivre, Someone who lives by the golden rule. I’m looking for emotional intimacy and intellectual companionship.
I imagine that we all carry the longing for emotional intimacy. It often sits quietly in the back of our mind but we can feel it sometimes, an ache in the heart, a longing, … There is intertwined with that ache the ache for the passion of sex, for intense engagement, that dance of two souls in the heat of passion ... Domination and submission can create that intimacy, something deeper than surface sex (although nothing wrong with that). It is one of its draws for me. What do you think?
Ideally I'm looking for an emotional and romantic connection with a woman who is my equal. In sexuality, I'm looking for a woman who will train and discipline me to be sexually subservient to her and use me for her pleasure. I can switch if she wants that at times; I’ve experienced both roles. Her arousal and pleasure is what turns me on.

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed, Oral Sex, Domination, Bondage, Strap On Sex