English, German, Other

Not looking for LTR-- looking to find myself. Grew up sheltered, but it's pretty clear that my first serious relationship went out the window because I was in slave mode and he was just a normal guy, and it's way past time to explore that part of myself. I don't respond well to humiliation or the idea of anal, and these are dealbreakers. Roleplay depends. I'm bi but have no experience (yet) with women (which is ironic, I stare after women more, but conservative upbringings are hard to break) and not a lot with men. Clean, drug and alcohol free, I don't smoke or 420. No tattoos, but I want some; no piercings, don't want any. No BDSM experience, no toy experience, and I know just about nothing. Have not read 50 Shades. Leather, zippers, chains, fishnet, candle wax is a plus. I might be a switch, and I know I like biting, clawing, hinkies, and displays of physical strength from my mate (being carried, tossed, or held/forced down). Not sure what else... Looking for man, woman, othersex, or couple (genders of couple do not matter right now) to pull me into their world. Looking for safe exploration... as in, I want to explore, but if it's new to my partner(s) as well, that's bad, so I'm hoping for someone with plenty of experience to make sure I don't, you know, die or something. I don't fear the reaper, but I'd prefer to take his hand about a hundred years from now. Bedroom and identity confusion aside, I am a cynical free spirit. I'm decently well traveled, have a range of life experiences, and seek Enlightenment but don't drink the Koolaid. I may neglect eating for days, then eat two pizzas, or maybe a full course and then dessert at one of those restaurants where they always give you way too much. I like prog rock, comic books, and can sing all the right words to American Pie. I can bake, do noodles and quesadillas, but know nada about sauces or how to make salsa. I have not met an activity that I don't like.

Libra

Curvy

5' 7 (1.7 m)

Gray

Caucasian

Divorced

No

Yes

Chest

Other

Brown

No pets

No

Some College

Student

Other

Epitome of Random Choices

Less Than $14,999USD

Alone

All Is Calm

No

No

Quiet One

Friendly, Observant, Outgoing, Reserved

Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Cooking, Dancing, Dining, Internet, Gardening, Learning, Music, Playing Cards, Religion / Spirituality, Travel

Clubbing / Bars, Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Going To A Casino, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Playing Video Games, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Sleeping, The Movies, Trying New Things

I have no idea. I haven't been on a 'date' since 8th grade. Surprise me?

Everything!

Friendly, Obscure

Other

Once

I Don't Like Politics

To figure out how I want to live with plenty of time to do it before I die, and to be happy.

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Obscure, Sadistic

I Don't Like Tv

Action, Science Fiction

Metal, Rock

Fantasy, Fiction, Science Fiction, I'm An Author

...pretty broad. But disincludes long, dull evenings spent in front of the tv.

Boldness, Empathy, Flirtatiousness, Good Looks, Great Skills, Humor, Intelligence, Power, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

*dry* Someone who can spell "thoughtfulness" correctly on dating compatibility surveys.

In men: A full head of hair and muscle structure. For the latter, the appearance of it is damn hot, but being able to touch and feel it under the skin works also.

In women: Large breasts, general fitness, and a feminine appearance. Not attracted to longer faces.

Internet Buddy, Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed, Other, Domination, Bondage