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The short version is I a Dominate seeking a submissive. The long version is harder to put to words.
I have for many years enjoyed D/s relationships, not a large number as it takes a lot of time, energy, trust building for me in developing these relationships but in those relationships I found an intimacy and pleasure that I have not found outside. There is this thing that happens for me when my submissive says “I submit to you” that breaks down all internal barriers for me, brings out my protective instincts, appeals to my masculinity, and frankly is very sensual for me. From my side at least there is nothing in the way of exploring each other’s passions and natures to the fullest.
I enjoy controlling every aspect of the encounter, the preparation of the surroundings and the activities. Controlling my subs movements, position, experiences – site….sound….taste…touch…, orgasm,… Taking as long as I possibly can to slowly excite her, build the desire until she cannot focus on anything but begging to do anything I ask so I will allow her to finally orgasm… and then start the process again. It is very fulfilling and in the back of my mind is this selfish desire to provide something she has not experienced before and will not again. Obviously a lot of ego involved….. but no apologies for that. It is another aspect of a great D/s relationship that I enjoy – no judgement.
I have boundaries: No excrement, no truly abusive physical or verbal behavior, no permanent injury…. I understand fully the pain/pleasure connection and enjoy finding the mix that suits you best but I will always guard against what I consider to be too much. I might have some fear about crossing lines that I would not feel good about later no matter how much they were desired in the moment.
I take excellent care of my health and believe you will find me to be attractive, in very good shape for any age, intelligent, and an enjoyable conversationalist (again I may have some ego issues but hey – If I am wrong it will become quickly evident ;-).
The process will not be quick. Exchange some thoughts over email to cover the basics of what we are looking for. Meet for coffee and to gauge chemistry and then if we are in agreement meet to start your training. Like all training we will start with the basics, baby steps.
The first session will be simple. I will teach you the ritual of submitting which I believe is a critical first step and then practice simple body control. The ritual itself is not as important as having it, it is a way for you to get to the right mental place when we meet before actually diving into training. In a nutshell when you are ready you will perform the ritual – undressing in the way I teach you, kneeling where and how I direct, holding your whip in your upraised hands while holding your body and head in the form I have trained you in, and then saying the words “I submit to you” – making the transition from your whatever had been going on in your day to being my submissive. This is when I assume control. The body control session is also a first step in assessing where you are, how much discipline you require, and is straightforward. I will command you to lay still in various positions, I expect you to not move until commanded, you will not be restrained yet, during this session I will use my hands over your entire body to bring the onset of desire in you. You will provide a continuous stream of feedback so I can get to know your body and responses making sure that I know at all times how close you are to orgasm. When close I will stop until you subside a bit and then bring you close again, repeatedly.. and if you move I stop....if you fail several times I will spank you, only with my hands at this point… and if you do well I will let you orgasm. From this session we will build….
If this appeals to you, reach out to me. I look forward to hearing from you.
Mitch

Aquarius

Fit

5' 10 (1.78 m)

Hazel

Caucasian

Yes - Not At Home

No

Smile

Salt And Pepper

Dog

No

College Degree

Self-employed

Manufacturing / Distribution

Partner

$100,000USD To $150,000USD

All Is Calm

No

Yes - Socially

Jock

Friendly, Outgoing

Family, Exercising, Reading, Sports, Travel, Gardening, Fishing / Hunting

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Going To A Museum

Meet and just get to know each other a bit more, I am interested in quality experiences not rushing!

Friendly

Spiritual But Not Religious

Situation Comedies, Movies, Sports

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama

Country, Rock, Classical, Blues, Soul, Folk

Wit, Flirtatiousness, Spontaneity, Humor, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

Great attitude is the first thing I look for, how you interact together is so much more important than how you look together!