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Whispers, Restraints & In-Between
Age 54 From Ashburn, Virginia - - Online Now
Man (Dom) Seeking A Woman

Basic Information

First name  
Neal
I Can Speak  
English
I Would Describe Myself As  
About Me:

I’m a confident, experienced Dominant who thrives on structure, trust, and deep connection. My style isn’t about theatrics or bravado—it’s about presence, steady leadership, and creating a space where submission can unfold naturally, safely, and intimately. I bring calm authority, thoughtful communication, and a strong sense of responsibility to every connection.

Control, for me, is both a privilege and a commitment. It’s built gradually, through mutual respect, clear communication, and genuine care. I believe in safe, sane, and consensual exploration, and I see BDSM not just as play—but as a deeply personal path into vulnerability, intimacy, and shared growth.

My interests blend structure and sensuality. I’m drawn to the quiet intensity of restraint, the ritual of daily connection, and the steady rhythm of giving and receiving control. Whether we’re building routines, exploring protocol, or deepening emotional trust, I enjoy creating experiences that feel as fulfilling psychologically as they are physically.

My style leans toward soft domination, structured guidance, service dynamics, gentle discipline, and nurturing elements of DDlg or caregiver roles. I enjoy physical expression through restraint—whether that’s rope, cuffs, or a calm voice that holds you still. I value routine, rhythm, and the kind of connection that lingers long after a scene ends.

Outside of kink, I’m grounded, thoughtful, and curious. I value meaningful conversations, quiet confidence, and shared humor. I’m not here to collect partners or chase novelty—I invest where there’s real potential for trust, compatibility, and connection.

Who I’m Looking For:

I’m seeking a submissive woman who’s open, emotionally intelligent, and ready for something honest. Whether you’re new to the scene or more experienced, what matters most is your desire to explore deeply, communicate clearly, and grow within a dynamic built on mutual respect and chemistry.

Maybe you crave structure in your day, rituals that center you, or the calm reassurance of someone who listens, leads, and cares with intention. You may find comfort in restraint, joy in service, or fulfillment in learning to let go in the presence of someone who truly sees you. Whether your style is soft, obedient, nurturing, or simply curious—I’ll take the time to understand and support it.

If you’re self-aware, open-hearted, and drawn to the idea of surrendering in a space that values safety, consistency, and connection, we may be a great match. I’m not here to rush. I believe in building trust with care and letting the dynamic unfold in a way that’s meaningful to us both.

Whether this leads to something committed or simply a strong, fulfilling bond, I’m here for real conversations, genuine exploration, and shared discovery.
Sign  
Scorpio

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is  
A Few Extra Pounds
My Height Is  
5' 8 (1.73 m)
My Eyes Are  
Brown
My Ethnicity Is  
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is  
Separated
I Have Kids  
Yes - Not At Home
I Want Kids  
No
My Best Feature Is  
Hands
Body Art  
Secret Piercings
My Hair Is  
Brown
I Have One Or More Of These  
Dog
Willing To Relocate  
No

Status

My Education Level Is  
University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is  
Full-time
My Speciality Is  
Sales / Marketing
I Live  
With Pet(s)
At Home  
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker  
No
I Drink  
Yes - Socially

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A  
Quiet One
My Social Behavior Is  
Reserved, Observant, Friendly, Comedic
My Interest And Hobbies Are  
Dining, Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Theater, Travel
My Idea Of A Great Time Is  
Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be  
Coffee and Good Conversation
I've Always Wanted To Try  
Ride in Helicopter
My Friends Describe Me As Being  
Friendly

Views

My Religion Is  
Not Religious
I Attend Services  
Never
My Political Views Are  
Liberal
My Goal In Life Is  
Enjoy It
My Kind Of Humor Is  
Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Slapstick

Taste

On Tv, I Always Watch  
Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Sports
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A  
Comedy, Romance, Drama
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To  
Rock, Electronic, Pop, Blues, Jazz, New age, Dance
When I Read, I Always Read  
News, Business, Fiction, Horror, Technical, Erotica
My Idea Of Fun Is  
Building quiet tension, deep conversation, and meaningful connection—with just the right edge.

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?  
Spontaneity, Sensitivity, Humor, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence
What Do You Look For?  
I look for sensuality with depth, creativity in submission, passion without pretense, and the kind of obedience that’s freely—and eagerly—given.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?  
Internet Buddy, Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed, Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Domination, Bondage, Secretive Sex
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