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I am a blk 55 year old Dom that must be obeyed you can request, ask, or suggest but I will take over your life and run it as I see fit.You will be my sex slave and will have sex for my pleasure. You can be of any race single or married you still belong to me. I have a firm but loving hand this too you will learn to love.I DO NOT RESPOND TO PROFILES WITH OUT A PHOTO!!!
What BDSM is NOT


Myth #1 – You can lock a person in a basement and torment them and call it BDSM.


The truth is that if a submissive has not willfully consented to this sort of interaction, it’s still against the law to hold someone against their will.



Myth #2 – You can beat someone senselessly and call it BDSM

Again, unless the submissive asked for such a severe beating (and few people would), this too is against many laws and is not a recommended way to ‘play’ in a BDSM setting.


While it’s true that BDSM can be dangerous, almost every relationship can be dangerous in some way – so let’s talk about the myths that many people have about BDSM to help you understand what is causing the misunderstanding.


The point is that BDSM and Dominant/submissive relationships are all based on a consensual relationship in which boundaries are discussed beforehand. Only when the both of you have understood and agreed upon those limitations, can the scene take place.


It also must be understood, that the submissive can end any scene at any time. This is the point of a consensual Dominant and submissive relationship. While BDSM may be many things, but above all else it should always be Safe, Sane, and Consensual


This means that you should never get involved in any activity that you do not feel comfortable with, is not safe or does not utilize safety measures.

For example:

* Never play with someone you don't know and/or trust
* Always practice protected safe sex
* Never use someone else's toys
* Never let anyone push you into doing something you are not comfortable with.
* Never consume drugs or alcohol before or while you are playing
* Never play when you are angry


Always keep your BDSM sessions at a point where you feel comfortable and safe both mentally and emotionally. Also make sure that your partner understands your limits and respects them. You do not want to put yourself into something that could cause you or your partner permanent harm. This goes for both Dominants and submissives - Nothing in BDSM is meant to inflict permanent damage to a person


BDSM is simply another way to bring excitement into a relationship – both sexual and non-sexual. The turning over of one’s ‘power’ to another allows you to experience all the sensations that you want, while being given the power to guide someone on a journey to exceed their expectations of themselves is also gratifying. All of it must be done in a safe and controlled manner.

Capricorn

A Few Extra Pounds

5' 9 (1.75 m)

Brown

African American

Divorced

Yes - Not At Home

Not Sure

Lips

Wouldn't Even Think About It

Grey

No pets

Yes

Some University

Other

With Roomate(s)

There Is No Noise

No

Yes - Socially

Cool Dude

Reserved, Friendly, Dark

Dining, Reading, Sports, Tv, Movies, Internet, Games, Cooking, Gardening, Fishing / Hunting, Playing Cards, Camping, Computers

Partying, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Sleeping, Reading A Book, Going To A Casino, Playing Video Games, Tv

Taking you someplace quite for dinner and drinks so that we can talk and get to know one other.

Having a harem of subs one Blk,White,Asain,Latin

Friendly, Cool, Raunchy

Other

Once

Liberal

To live out all my hops and dreams and share it with those I hold dear.

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Raunchy

News, Documentaries, Movies, Sports

Action, Science Fiction, Documentary

Blues, Jazz, Soul

Auto-biography, Biography, Fantasy, Fiction, Health, History, Home & Garden, Mystery, Nature, Political, Science Fiction, Sports, Technical, Romance, Erotica

Doing what every I like at the time

Spontaneity, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence, Passiveness

I want a woman who is willing to please me in any way I choose she should also be willing to tell me about each and everyone of her fantasies. And be ready to follow my lead as I make them come true.

Intimate, Committed, Other, Marriage, Doesnt Matter, Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Domination, Bondage, Group Sex